6 cruel, but true facts of life, accepting that you will become stronger

Suppose you want to challenge all that is written below, but sooner or later you have to admit - this is the truth. And to take it. < Website publishes a translation of an article by David Wong, a motivational writer, Cracked.com editor, the eternal truths that no one wants to admit.

1. The world wondering just what he can get from vas



As soon as you come into this world, you will immediately become a cog in the system, developed only to listen to the human needs. Whether you focus on the task of "listening to people's needs" and will gain a unique set of skills, or the world will reject you.

2. You - it's your rabota



A lot of people want to conform to the words of Tyler Durden in "Fight Club": "Your work - it is not you yourself," but it is not. You are merely a handful of useful skills, and nothing more.

For example, to be a mother - it is a job that requires quite certain skills. This is what a person is able to do, thereby bringing benefit to other members of society. So make no mistake: your "work", that is, benefits that you bring to others - is what you have

3.. What you are doing is not obliged to bring you money, it is obliged to bring people polzu



The world asks: what can you offer me? You're smart? Interesting? Funny? Talented? Creative? Ambitious? What do you do to show me his qualities? It does not say that you're a good guy. It's not enough.

People want to know how you can help them. If all that you can - not be a bad person, your destiny - a miserable oblivion

4.. You hate yourself when nothing delaete



The feeling of worthlessness spoils people nerves and plunges into a depression. This is because all of us, in fact, social animals and are genetically predisposed to carry favor of his "flock».

Think about how much time you spend on all sorts of consumer pieces created by other people (TV, music, video games, websites), rather than to create something of their own? Only it adds value to your existence.

5. What is inside of you, it is important only when it makes you something delat



It does not matter that in mind you -.... Kind, compassionate, talented, humane, wise ... etc. etc. The important thing is that this breaks out in the real world, and what actions you make through this its excellent quality. If all your help the world does not go beyond sympathy and empathy - you are no different from trees or grass under your feet (even more from them the world use). As long as you do not come off your ass off the couch, no one will not care that you have in there - and the point

6.. Everything inside you will resist razvitiyu



The mind of man - a miracle, and it is best to look at his work when he was fighting against the obvious evidence that change is needed. Do your psyche has a built-in defense mechanism, which is designed to destroy all that can move from place certain things within you.

The suffering - it's convenient. That is why many people prefer them. Happiness requires effort. And courage. You just have to kill all of your excuses! Otherwise, they will kill you.

You have nothing to lose, but the world - needs you



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