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7 signs that you caught a nice guy ... and not just another bastard
All women who meet someone looking for a couple, or just thinking about it, is to know the signs that distinguish the good guys from well-camouflaged bastards.
Good man, how perfect dress and comfortable shoes - all this, unfortunately, is almost impossible to find. The swarming of entertainments, where often throws us a life, women face with the old, as if the world, the problem - the number of times in more quality, and, although there is an abundance of constant men of those for whom it would be desirable to hold on and not let go, but if peer - can not see any worthy candidate.
Usually enough to tell them the first phrase, send SMS messages or VKontakte to broadly understand what you got for people, and the chances that it is sweet, kind and sensitive man, alas, very, very small.
We are waiting for that inevitable moment in which he will show his true colors, reveal their motives, and that the thin skin of "good guy" that was thrown over him, finally will slide, revealing light lurking beneath her full and complete bastard.
Like a shy deer in the vast forest, we have learned to adapt to the environment and to protect themselves from prowling around toothy bastards, bastards and a womanizer.
We have learned to recognize the signs of their approach, the place where they come to hunt and trap, they are arranged on us, and that we so often find ourselves inexperience.
We have learned to recognize the danger of one inhalation smell of cologne and read the meaning hidden behind the words pikapera clearly than other people - typed text. We have become much stronger than before, and we have not so easy to fool.
But, alas, got rid of illusions, we have become like animals, over which abused for too long, and that is very difficult to believe that they can find something good. Even if it is "good" under their very noses. We are ready to bite any hand that tries to touch us - even if we were just trying to stroke. We are covered with scars and bruises, iznemozhen and lack of faith in humanity.
We are very cautious and suspicious - so much so that they are ready to break into tiny shreds anyone who tries to approach us at arm's length. While these waste reflexes keep us away from all the bastards, so far do they keep us from those who are worthy of attention.
Those who seek to do us no hurt, and envelop us with love and attention that we have lacked. They are attracted to us, wanting to stand beside us, to become our partners, and for those who lack the romance, even a handsome prince.
Due to the fact that we are looking so hard around the poor, often we just do not notice the good. We are in such a hurry to evaluate, weigh, and the results of all tests to determine a guy in one single category of "bad guys" that we do not give him a chance to prove to the floor, he was not one of them.
But if you manage to stumble upon one of the "good guys", you can find much more than just a guy. You will find a gentleman. And if you do not find the very comfortable shoes, which we discussed earlier in this article, it really perfect ... you get certainly - and the gift.
All women who meet someone looking for a couple, or just thinking about it, is to know the signs that distinguish the good guys from well-camouflaged bastards:
1. He asks questions, not just answers them
Good guy wants to know all about you and not only that you have under your clothes. And he does not ask only one trick question, questions designed to set you on a stormy night with him. No, it matters - a natural part of your conversation with him.
He gently tries threads taste, trying to find out what you're interested in, and seeks to continue the conversation. And, of course, remember that you met him, and two visits later - if he really is a good guy.
2. He calls you by name, and not just "cat" and "Zaikov»
Pikaper wolves modern stone forest, rarely called their victims by name, and usually do forget them dating to the second minute. But if a guy keeps calling you by name and does it with soul, you can be sure he will not ask in the morning, what's your name.
In a world where we usually call each other honey, bunny and pussy - and hundreds of other diminutive names, sometimes the most exciting name that you can call a guy - it's your own.
3. It opens doors, not close them
And metaphorically and literally good guy always opens doors for you. Whether it's the door to his soul, or the door to the restaurant, where he invited you, he always opens it for you and hold until you pass.
And he never close ourselves to you, if you want to get close to him, or things will start to happen too quickly. For you, it opened all the doors, not only the gate to the hall first dates or door without a lock in the bedroom, "one night stands».
4. He is interested in your family, and does not hide his
Men are just as fearful as they are women. They have the same unpleasant feature to avoid unpleasant situations, fleeing, and as much, if not more cockroaches in my head, when it comes to dating. So it is very possible that at the first mention of the family, a serious relationship or marriage, he will run screaming through those same doors that had just opened up for you.
But a good guy do not scare so easy. Good guy wants to be with you, know your strengths and weaknesses, and, of course, your family. Moreover, he does not hide anything from you - none of that is important.
5. In a conversation with you, he climbs his words
Good guy has to be just as interesting to you, how you - to him. He should not let you relax, keep you constantly "on the crest of the wave", and, most importantly, do not lisp with you. You must agree, there is nothing better for a Man, able to adequately respond to your venomous mot. And of course, he knows when to stop, if the skirmish is going too far.
6. He knows that "good" - not always "good", even if it is easier to believe
The good guy is not trying to get away from the conversation using puns and every subterfuge. He does not ignore your problems and pain, on the contrary, he sees everything, even the smallest, "bells" and the words for which you hide it, and he knows - with you that something is not right. He knows that "good" is not always really mean "good" and sees through your clumsy attempts to hide behind words.
7. It tends not to be your whole world and make your world a better place
Make your life someone else is painfully simple. A pull someone out of their lives and in their place the whole - even easier. Nice guy respects your life, and does not seek to pull you out of it with the roots.
He was not afraid of your career, friends or strange hobby - on the contrary, it pleased them. And you know, he - the best ever find in your world, even if he did not become its center.
Good man, how perfect dress and comfortable shoes - all this, unfortunately, is almost impossible to find. The swarming of entertainments, where often throws us a life, women face with the old, as if the world, the problem - the number of times in more quality, and, although there is an abundance of constant men of those for whom it would be desirable to hold on and not let go, but if peer - can not see any worthy candidate.
Usually enough to tell them the first phrase, send SMS messages or VKontakte to broadly understand what you got for people, and the chances that it is sweet, kind and sensitive man, alas, very, very small.
We are waiting for that inevitable moment in which he will show his true colors, reveal their motives, and that the thin skin of "good guy" that was thrown over him, finally will slide, revealing light lurking beneath her full and complete bastard.
Like a shy deer in the vast forest, we have learned to adapt to the environment and to protect themselves from prowling around toothy bastards, bastards and a womanizer.
We have learned to recognize the signs of their approach, the place where they come to hunt and trap, they are arranged on us, and that we so often find ourselves inexperience.
We have learned to recognize the danger of one inhalation smell of cologne and read the meaning hidden behind the words pikapera clearly than other people - typed text. We have become much stronger than before, and we have not so easy to fool.
But, alas, got rid of illusions, we have become like animals, over which abused for too long, and that is very difficult to believe that they can find something good. Even if it is "good" under their very noses. We are ready to bite any hand that tries to touch us - even if we were just trying to stroke. We are covered with scars and bruises, iznemozhen and lack of faith in humanity.
We are very cautious and suspicious - so much so that they are ready to break into tiny shreds anyone who tries to approach us at arm's length. While these waste reflexes keep us away from all the bastards, so far do they keep us from those who are worthy of attention.
Those who seek to do us no hurt, and envelop us with love and attention that we have lacked. They are attracted to us, wanting to stand beside us, to become our partners, and for those who lack the romance, even a handsome prince.
Due to the fact that we are looking so hard around the poor, often we just do not notice the good. We are in such a hurry to evaluate, weigh, and the results of all tests to determine a guy in one single category of "bad guys" that we do not give him a chance to prove to the floor, he was not one of them.
But if you manage to stumble upon one of the "good guys", you can find much more than just a guy. You will find a gentleman. And if you do not find the very comfortable shoes, which we discussed earlier in this article, it really perfect ... you get certainly - and the gift.
All women who meet someone looking for a couple, or just thinking about it, is to know the signs that distinguish the good guys from well-camouflaged bastards:
1. He asks questions, not just answers them
Good guy wants to know all about you and not only that you have under your clothes. And he does not ask only one trick question, questions designed to set you on a stormy night with him. No, it matters - a natural part of your conversation with him.
He gently tries threads taste, trying to find out what you're interested in, and seeks to continue the conversation. And, of course, remember that you met him, and two visits later - if he really is a good guy.
2. He calls you by name, and not just "cat" and "Zaikov»
Pikaper wolves modern stone forest, rarely called their victims by name, and usually do forget them dating to the second minute. But if a guy keeps calling you by name and does it with soul, you can be sure he will not ask in the morning, what's your name.
In a world where we usually call each other honey, bunny and pussy - and hundreds of other diminutive names, sometimes the most exciting name that you can call a guy - it's your own.
3. It opens doors, not close them
And metaphorically and literally good guy always opens doors for you. Whether it's the door to his soul, or the door to the restaurant, where he invited you, he always opens it for you and hold until you pass.
And he never close ourselves to you, if you want to get close to him, or things will start to happen too quickly. For you, it opened all the doors, not only the gate to the hall first dates or door without a lock in the bedroom, "one night stands».
4. He is interested in your family, and does not hide his
Men are just as fearful as they are women. They have the same unpleasant feature to avoid unpleasant situations, fleeing, and as much, if not more cockroaches in my head, when it comes to dating. So it is very possible that at the first mention of the family, a serious relationship or marriage, he will run screaming through those same doors that had just opened up for you.
But a good guy do not scare so easy. Good guy wants to be with you, know your strengths and weaknesses, and, of course, your family. Moreover, he does not hide anything from you - none of that is important.
5. In a conversation with you, he climbs his words
Good guy has to be just as interesting to you, how you - to him. He should not let you relax, keep you constantly "on the crest of the wave", and, most importantly, do not lisp with you. You must agree, there is nothing better for a Man, able to adequately respond to your venomous mot. And of course, he knows when to stop, if the skirmish is going too far.
6. He knows that "good" - not always "good", even if it is easier to believe
The good guy is not trying to get away from the conversation using puns and every subterfuge. He does not ignore your problems and pain, on the contrary, he sees everything, even the smallest, "bells" and the words for which you hide it, and he knows - with you that something is not right. He knows that "good" is not always really mean "good" and sees through your clumsy attempts to hide behind words.
7. It tends not to be your whole world and make your world a better place
Make your life someone else is painfully simple. A pull someone out of their lives and in their place the whole - even easier. Nice guy respects your life, and does not seek to pull you out of it with the roots.
He was not afraid of your career, friends or strange hobby - on the contrary, it pleased them. And you know, he - the best ever find in your world, even if he did not become its center.