8 things that are worth remember when it all goes wrong
1. Pain is part of growth. H6>
Sometimes life closes a door, because it's time to move. And it's - well, because we often do not begin to move if circumstances force us. When the going gets tough times, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose. Move from what hurts you, but never forget the lesson that it teaches you. What you fight, does not mean that you fail. Every great success requires that present a decent fight. Good takes time. Remain patient and confident. Everything will get better; probably not a moment, but eventually everything will be ... Remember that there are two kinds of pain: the pain that hurts, and the pain that changes you. When you go through life, rather than resist it, help it to develop you.
2. Everything in life is temporary. H6>
Whenever there is rain, you know that it's over. Every time you get hurt, the wound heals. After dark there is always light - reminds you of it every morning, but nevertheless, it often seems that the night will last forever. This will not happen. Nothing lasts forever. Thus, if all is well now, enjoy this. It will not last forever. If it's bad, do not worry, because this is not going to last forever. The fact that life is not easy at the moment, does not mean that you can not laugh. The fact that something bothers you, does not mean that you can not smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending. Every second you get a second chance. Just use it.
3. Excitement and complaints will not change anything. H6>
Those who complain the most, are making the least. Always better to try to do something more and fail than try to succeed without doing anything. Nothing is finished, if you have lost; everything is over, if you really just complain. If you believe in something, keep trying. And no matter what happens in the end, remember that true happiness comes only starts when you stop complaining about your problems and start being grateful for all the problems that you have.
4. Your scars are a symbol of your strength. Never be ashamed of scars, h6> left your life. A scar means the pain is gone, and the wound was delayed. This means that you have overcome the pain, learned a lesson, have become more powerful and advanced. The scar is a tattoo of triumph. Do not let the scars hold you hostage. Do not let them make you live in fear. Begin to consider them as a sign of strength. Rumi once said, "A wound in the light enters you." Nothing could be closer to the truth. Out of suffering emerged the strongest souls; most influential people in this big world marked with scars. Look at his scars both on the slogan: "Yes! I did it! I survived, and I have the scars to prove it! And now I have the chance to become even stronger ».
5. Every little battle - this is a step forward. H6>
In life, patience is not equal to the waiting time; it is the ability to maintain a good mood, working hard on your dreams. Therefore, if you are going to try, go to the end. Otherwise, start no sense. This can mean a loss of stability and comfort for a while, and maybe even your mind. You may have not have what you are used to, or do not sleep as much as you used to, for weeks on end. This may mean changing your comfort zone. This may mean sacrificing relationships and all that is familiar to you. This may mean the appearance of ridicule. This can mean loneliness. Loneliness, however, is a gift that makes a lot of things get vozmozhnymi.Vy space they need. Everything else - test your endurance, on how much you really want to achieve. And if you want it, you do it, despite setbacks and disagreements. And every step you will feel better than you can imagine. You will understand that the struggle - is no obstacle in the way of this - the way.
6. The negative reaction of other people - it's not your problem. H6>
Be sure when bad surrounds you. Smile when others try to defeat you. This - the easy way to maintain their own enthusiasm. When other people will talk bad about you, continue to be yourself. Never let someone else talk you change. You can not take everything too seriously, even if it seems personal. Do not assume that people are doing something for you. They are doing something for themselves. First of all, never change to impress someone who says you are not good enough. Me if it makes you a better and leads you to a brighter future. People will talk no matter what you do or how well you do it. Worry about yourself, not about the opinion of others. If you believe in something, do not be afraid to fight for it. Great strength comes from overcoming the impossible.
7. What needs to happen will happen. H6>
You get power when waive cries and complaints and start to smile and appreciate your life. There are blessings that are hidden in each fight, you face, but you must be willing to open your heart and mind to see them. You can not force things to happen. You can only try. At some point you have to let go of the situation and allow what is intended to happen. Love your life, your intuition, risk, waste and find happiness, learn through experience. This is - a long trip. You need to stop worrying, ask questions and doubt at any time. Laugh, enjoy every moment of your life. You may not know exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive there, where you should be.
8. Just keep moving. H6>
Do not be afraid to get angry. Do not be afraid to love again. Do not let the cracks in your heart turn into scars. Understand that strength increases every day. Understand that courage is beautiful. Find in your heart that makes others smile. Remember that you do not need many people in my life, so do not aspire to have more "friends." Be strong when it is hard. Remember that the universe is always doing what is right. Admit when you're wrong and learn from it. Always look back, see what you have achieved, and proud. Do not change for anyone, unless you want to. Do more. Live easier. And never stops moving.