Love or fake? Bashny.Net

So how do you determine the real sense of the fake? In his book "Sex, love or passion - as it determined?" Dr. Ray Short gives some key tips that will help a person explore their sense and determine whether it is real or fake feeling. Below are 12 signs by which you need to analyze your feeling, and then you can draw conclusions.

What attracted you to your partner? Counterfeiting if attracts external beauty, attraction, money, power, position in society, which has chosen. True feelings, if you interested in the whole person, with all the flaws.
How many different qualities do you see in people and taking them? Counterfeiting, if enough of these qualities. True feelings, if you see many facets of the individual Partner, and take them all.
How did it start? Counterfeiting, if at first sight. So there is sexual desire, and true feelings come gradually, as the recognition of partners.
How constant is your interest? Counterfeiting, if your feelings ranging from indifference to passion, depending on the mood. True feelings, if your feeling lives inside you, warms the soul warm flame, regardless of external circumstances.
How feelings affect you? Fake, if you're constantly thinking about your partner, you become distracted, head in the clouds. If you experience small things if he did not call, for example. True feelings, if you're trying to get better, set at creation.
How do you feel about it at another? Counterfeiting, if the whole world revolves around you of your loved one, you are ready to go to conflict with other people, or you start to ignore friends and relatives. A real sense, if a loved important to you, but you do not sacrifice fellowship with loved ones for him.
As the surrounding look at your relationship? Counterfeiting if relatives do not approve of your relationship. True feelings, if your environment supports you because they love you and from seeing what is not visible to you.
What is the effect of separation? FORGERY. One of the best tests for the senses - the test distance. If you're just passionate about the time and kill your sense of distance. Over time, other living person who is close, replace a loved one, remaining only in pictures. True feelings only become stronger in the distance, and having passed the test of time, hardened. No need to fear that the partner finds another person, if found, it will be better than the betrayal after years of living together.
How spat affect your relationship? Fake, if you often quarrel, sometimes simply out of boredom. If you are unhappy with each other constantly. REAL FEEL. Quarrels happen, but are constructive, are both partners make conclusions.
How do you consider your relationship? Counterfeiting, if you are alone, doing something that is interesting only to you. True feelings when you think you together. When you're not interested to go to a party without a partner when you are united by a common affair.
Are you selfish? Fake, if you meet with a partner because it is prestigious, rich, famous person. True feelings, if you meet a simple person, regardless of his achievements.
What is the basis of your feelings? Fake, if you want to get the comfort, convenience, good. True feelings, if important to you to give in a relationship to make the partner happy next to him.
Now rate your feeling. Take a piece of paper and evaluate their sense of from 0 to 10 for each item, with 0 - forgery, and 10 - a real sense. No need to extremes, quietly adequately assess their feeling. Next you need to lay down the resulting numbers. If the result was 50 to 80, or even more, which means that your sense is true. But do not rush to drag a partner to the altar. It would be nice to your partner and pass this test as frankly and only in case of reciprocity can count on the further development of harmonious relations.