Are you satisfied with your life? Are you happy? What makes you think that you are happy? When you see yourself satisfied? Where and when do you feel the most satisfaction? Is there some special time and place for this? How often does this happen? How do you define happiness and satisfaction? Who in your life makes you happy, or takes away your happiness?
Pay attention to these issues. If you consider yourself to be truly happy, then do they depend on external circumstances, or are you inside? If you see yourself truly happy pretty short time, can you duplicate these situations so that they happened more often? When you see yourself unhappy, whether it depends on external circumstances?
"Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your heart. Who looks outside - sees only dreams, who looks at himself - awakening "- Carl Jung wrote.
If your happiness is based on some external factors: money, time, relations with the "right" people, then you are doomed to failure. When circumstances change, and change your luck. If your happiness comes from within, it will not be subject to any circumstances.
"Easier said than done" - you might say. Well, how do you create happiness within yourself? How do you achieve independence from other people, places and things?
LEARN YOU REALLY love yourself?
There are several important components in this matter. They include self-esteem, gratitude, trust, patience. Think about whether you yourself with the same love and appreciation, which could be related to another person.
Dear Do you find yourself?
Is there something in your past or someone who will make you feel a person in the least? Whether you live in accordance with their personal values? Can you say that you can be trusted? Do you keep your word?
Do you accept YOURSELF?
Do you accept yourself as well as others? Have attention only on their weaknesses or highlight their positive qualities? Is there any areas in your life that you do not like? Have you changed them? Change what you do not like it, take what you do not want to change. You do not need to be perfect.
Do you value YOURSELF?
Do you encourage yourself for committing good deeds? Do encourage yourself in the same words that are pronounced for the other?
Do you trust Me?
Are you following your intuition? Make decisions based on feelings? Do you have the common sense? Did you learn from mistakes?
Manifested YOU PATIENCE TO YOURSELF?
Whether you are staying on the negative or positive dilutes them? You will not be able to think positively, if your mind is clogged with negative thoughts, but you can develop the habit of positive thinking, taking the position of optimism and hope.
Start taking care of yourself. If you yourself do not, nobody will do it for you. If you do not value and do not love yourself, how can you expect others to appreciate and love you? Set goals that will make you take care of yourself. Learn everything that happens: on the positive and negative, on small and large.
A pleasant side effect of satisfaction with life is that you become more free. When you begin to love yourself, you can offer a lot more, and others. You are no longer so busy meet their personal needs. It's a win-win situation. When this happens, you will find that in your life there are wonderful people that make it even better.
If you want to happen in your life something good, work hard to make this began to happen. It's your life. Appreciate it and enjoy it.