While I was working, my wife was bored and waiting for me, but when I came back, everything changed.

Carelessness and negligence They can destroy any life. And by his behavior, a person harms not only himself, but also others. And first of all, his close people, his family suffer.



Today's edition. "Site" He will share the story of a man who tried to do his best so that his wife would not need anything. He even went to work in distant Portugal, where he worked for a long time. But when he returned, he found himself in a rather unpleasant situation.

He said, My wife and I have never been rich. It so happened that I do not have a higher education, I always worked either at a construction site or at a factory, sometimes I did temporary part-time work. My Lenka, although she studied at the institute, did not work by profession. For many years she is a consultant in a cosmetics store, says Dmitry.



“But prices are constantly rising, more and more money is needed. The daughter is growing up, will soon go to school, you need some money to save. It is time to renovate the apartment and replace the furniture. No money, either. Where do we get them when our salaries are spent every month? ?

“That was the idea of working abroad. Especially since a friend came from Portugal, boasted that he earned well at the factory. And in general, I said that there is enough work, you just need to plow. You don't even have to know the language. I didn't have to talk too much. And Lena didn't mind. So I went to Portugal for six months.”



“Of course, it was unusual and difficult. We worked hard and lived in small rooms. He ate only once a day, and once again to spend money on food seemed unreasonable. Nor is it easy to force yourself to spend those hard-earned euros.”



“My wife often called at first, found out about my working days, supported me. But over time, these calls were less and less frequent. I felt like I was the only one missing. And when he returned six months later, that feeling only intensified.”

“No, Lena was happy to come home.” But I thought she was even more excited about the money I brought. Her frivolity and daily shopping trips were an unpleasant discovery for me. I never thought she would be willing to spend our money so easily on nonsense.”

“My attempts to reason with her did not lead to anything, we only quarreled. This is the first week of my return. And now my wife has said that I should not waste time and go back to Portugal before someone is found in my place. Such money work will not wait long.”



“I was not planning to go anywhere. I was going to do repairs, relax, later find some work in our city. And now I hear it. I'm leaving now, we won't repair it, she'll blow the money. And for what? So that in six months everything will exactly repeat itself? asks Dmitry indignantly.



Perhaps it is now his wife’s turn to go abroad in search of a “money” job? If she has never seen hard work, how can she appreciate her husband’s work? What do you think of that? Share your opinion in the comments.