More and more people choose to be lonely, but the pressure of society does not disappear.

Statistics show that more and more people know by example, What is loneliness?. It is surprising that young people increasingly prefer life without a partner. However, each loner faces social pressure and is often ashamed of his independent status.



After all, many stereotypes are still quite firmly in the minds of people. It is believed that loners are sad and sad that they are actively looking for a soulmate and do not find. There is a common belief that if a person is lonely for a long time, then something is definitely wrong with him.

Studying the results of surveys, scientists were surprised that more than half of single respondents are ashamed that they are lonely. Although 60% of these people are satisfied with their lives, this does not protect them from intrusive questions, advice and pressure from others.



Social stereotypes suggest that family members live a fuller and happier life. Although, of course, this is not always true. At the same time, the life of singles is considered boring and even tragic, they are branded selfish, who care only about themselves.

The pressure of society should not be underestimated, because it can destroy even very strong self-esteem. Often, people who are comfortable living without a soul mate, succumb to the pressure of others, step over themselves and try to create a “normal” family. These attempts do not always lead to something good.



Psychotherapists explain that society condemns single people for not meeting their expectations. At the same time, the pressure on women is more noticeable than on men. This, for example, is evident even in the words “bachelor” and “old maid”, which can often be heard addressed to a lonely person.



Although in many Eastern countries, it also affects single men. And if a guy by the age of 30 has no wife or child, it is considered abnormal and even shameful. However, in recent years, such “flagrant” cases are only becoming more.



But public opinion is changing a little. Famous people also play a role here, who regularly share their views with fans using social networks. For example, the famous actress Emma Watson at the age of 33 publicly calls itself “independent partner”, which expresses support for other people who find advantages alone.

Covid and subsequent lockdowns also influenced people’s beliefs. Many have found that self-isolation is not as terrible as they once thought. And in today’s world, being single is an acceptable choice that has many positive aspects.



How do you treat people who are conscious? choose? Share your views in the comments.