She lied to a German about her house, pretending to be poor, and he is eager to get acquainted with my relatives.

Some women are very confident that their marriage-time It's not really that important. The main thing is early. Since childhood, they plan what their wedding will look like. bridegroomHe is a rich and wealthy man. They seriously consider what color the hair of the chosen one will be. It remains a matter of small: to grow to an acceptable age and fade away from the parental home.



Unfortunately, these aspirations often play a cruel joke with them. The image of the ideal wedding and the ideal man is not always consistent with the new circumstances. Blue-eyed handsome in everyday life can be an ordinary lazy or classic tyrant without a hint of what the imagination previously drew.

Mary married early and was very pleased with her chosen one. Economic, well-built. Even occasionally pampered her female vanity with a bouquet of flowers or a few lines (some as rhymed confessions of eternal love). That's a great choice. Especially if you look at the choice of friends.

The wedding was matched: beautiful, pompous. Mom and dad were very happy, although earlier, on the contrary, they did not want to give their only daughter “for the first person they meet.” Despite some routine in family life, things went well. First the son was born, and a year later the daughter arrived. That's when the problems started.



The husband began to constantly snap and show himself the master of the situation. From the former romance, only a pale shadow remains. A couple of roses on March 8, and they were given rather automatically. As they say, by inertia.

Not surprisingly, after a while, the husband, still in pretty good shape for his age, declared that he could no longer keep quiet about his relationship on the sidelines. I found myself a younger girl. “Brighter as a person. Not without the wind in her head, but she understands me well.”

Then everything fell like a snowball. Divorce, division of property, tears. Children now spent most of their time with their parents, Masha tried to pull herself together and start building a career. Good solution, but very difficult from the practical side.



Peels No, she wasn't stupid. But her lack of adult skills and innate impracticality made her spend more money than she could earn. The city she lived in could not boast of high salaries, and something had to be done about it. Moving a few miles closer to the capital? It doesn't make sense. Therefore, it was decided not to hit the eyebrow, but in the eye - only abroad!

How to treat suitors experienced woman After 10 years, the woman has grown up. She understands life and the rules of her game. From time to time Masha came home, spent time with children and aging parents. She helped financially, but there was nothing extraordinary about her. And how else if the salary of a waitress anywhere in the world, as it happens, not the highest?



But when she arrived in the next (as planned by Masha, the last) time, life did with the woman in its own way. It turned out that now her boss has changed. Now, instead of her peers and a good friend, another man commanded the restaurant. A short, bald man. Local, 5 years older than her. But quite polite and even gallant.

There was a feeling that the place of work would have to change. But, as it turned out, the new chief, although he was known as a squeamish and rather typical German, began to show signs of attention to Masha. Flowers, presents, requests to meet. The life of a waitress literally goes on at work. Rest is only rented apartment and watching movies in rare minutes of free time.

So in the end, Masha gave up. In communication, Stefan was pleasant, assertive and very in love. The man tried to please his chosen one and went straight out of his skin to achieve mutual feelings.



But by this time, Maria was not interested in relationships, especially serious ones. She did not feel negative towards her boyfriend, but seriously did not have any feelings for him. Even when they began to live together, she was not interested in the life together or the quality of their housing: all his gifts, both material and financial, were sent home. Parents and children.

Deception revealed unexpectedly and ugly Every story has its end. Sometimes good, sometimes not so good. A couple of years later, a new, youth cafe grew up near their classic German restaurant. Then one more and another. Rent became a horse, Stefan's restaurant began to suffer huge losses. At one point, he admitted that it was easiest to sell the establishment that was dragging them to the bottom with dead weight.



And an elderly German suddenly interested in the homeland of Masha. What kind of people live there and what kind of country is this? A short vacation could benefit relationships, and business in general.

Arriving, Stefan was surprised, first of all, in what a luxurious house lives Machine family. A couple of floors, a lawn, a nice neighborhood, a few cars.

- Your parents seem to be making good money, Maria!
- No, they're retired.
- Who then bought and furnished all this good?
- You know, honey. A little this, a little this. And remember, I sent some money that we saved? Well, it turns out that this is...
- Are you serious?!

It turned out that Masha was not going to go abroad anymore. There was no opportunity to live with a German at home. “Sorry, we don’t do that. The neighbors won't understand. And renting is expensive. I know that business is not making the money it used to.”



Peels Home Stefan returned with sadness and a bitter sense of injustice. He never became her ideal. But I could make a great friend. Well, that's what she calls him now. What can I do? I'm an adult. You should have thought earlier.