I stopped lending money to relatives and relatives, after my story, you too will stop.

What to do when people They do not pay back the money borrowed.? The answer is simple: don’t lend your money to anyone. According to the mass of popular signs, this cannot be done. And there are a lot of explanations for that. I'm not superstitious, but I wondered why you shouldn't share your hard-earned money with friends or acquaintances. I tell you everything in detail on the example of one everyday story.



Don’t pay back the money borrowed I’ve been going a long way to start earning really well. She studied hard, then went step by step to the desired job. You have no idea how many ups and downs I went through before I became a successful woman. Of course, a lot of them used it. Naïvely, I was led by other people.

I used to lend money to my family and friends. The first ones never gave them away. The others always pretended that I could wait. I already have enough means of subsistence. I thought there was nothing wrong with that. I’m not going to ask my sister to pay me back a certain amount.



But it's different now. First, I realized that money actually has a special energy. Of course, I have not always been repaid. I’ve learned to stand up for my boundaries and talk about things like that. But literally every time I got the money in my hands, that same day I got sick.

It could have been a headache or a cold. I thought it was a coincidence. But my grandmother assured me that the problem here is money energy. The people who paid me back clearly didn’t want to do that. I forced them. That's the result!



In addition, such situations will surely spoil your relationship with relatives or friends. I've had that once. Lent her friend a decent amount of money. I thought she was a serious person, I didn’t take any receipts from her. We verbally agreed that Julia’s debt will be paid monthly.



But it turned out that she was in no hurry to return my money. I waited a month, then two. And then I started texting her and asking her about the money. The problem was that I needed money at that time. My pipe burst at home and I had to make repairs. But her friend pretended that nothing was happening. And then she started accusing me of being a petty, self-serving woman. Think of it!

In general, Julia gave me a debt only six months later. And to make repairs, I took a loan, because I do not like to borrow from anyone. After that story, Julka and I no longer communicate. And I'm really sorry because I thought we were good friends.



In one way or another, all these stories have taught me one thing: don’t lend money to anyone, ever. Relatives will simply sit on the neck and hang legs. And friends can just forget about debt or pretend that they forgot. It's all very unpleasant.



My grandmother told me that when we lend money to someone, we automatically take their problems away. I'm not as superstitious as my ba, but there's definitely something in her words. You know, people don't always lend money when they're in a crisis.

I understand that everything in life happens. But sometimes I was asked for money because I needed someone to buy a gift. Is that normal? I believe that such expenses should be calculated in advance. I’m tired of being a wallet full of money. And I am sad that because of money I have to quarrel with family and friends. Sometimes I feel that my wealth brings me more problems than joy. Have you ever had this?