The gentleman insisted that he would pay for dinner, but in the morning I had an unpleasant message on my phone.

There are many opinions about whether a man should pay offLike a coffee shop. Each side has its own arguments and beliefs, each decides when it is acceptable for him to pay, and when someone else should do it for him. On this basis, misunderstandings often arise between guys and girls on the first date.

Today's edition. "Site" He will share the story of a young beauty who met an interesting guy. At first things were going well, but then it was time to pay for the food and drinks. And then the weirdness started. But is it possible to understand an economical suitor who demands a return of money spent?



I met Oleg in a cafe where I came to dine. Our businesses were located in nearby buildings, so we crossed paths regularly during lunch. That's how we met. I used to come to lunch first, make an order, sit down at a table. And Oleg came later, ordered himself something, and then sat next to me, Anya writes.



One day I was late at work and Oleg and I came to lunch at the same time. Ordered, I started looking for a wallet to pay, but my companion stopped me. Said he'd pay himself.

I pulled out my wallet and tried to pay back, because it was kind of awkward that someone I didn't know very well, an ordinary acquaintance, was paying for me. But Oleg insisted on his - he paid for himself and for me. I decided that 250 rubles is not such a large amount to take it too seriously, so I did not argue.



And on the weekend Oleg first wrote to me in the messenger, we talked a little. After that, he invited me to the cafe tonight. I had no plans, so I easily agreed. We had a good time, had coffee, walked in the park, then went to the cafe and had dinner.

And for coffee and dinner I offered to pay half, but Oleg did not agree. Said he was a man, so he'll pay for it himself, and then we'll settle it. I did not attach much importance to the last sentence.



The next morning I received a message from the new boyfriend, where he wrote his card number and even attached a photo of the check, which he prudently took with him. The amount was small, but the fact of such pettiness upset me. I did transfer the money.

I went to another place for lunch on Monday. Going there was further than in the usual cafe, but I did not want to see Oleg. After lunch, he wrote to me himself. I asked why she didn't come. I didn't answer. Then he wrote me not to be offended because of the money, because it was a test that I successfully passed.



I did not appreciate such a check and replied that he did not pass my check. Then he asked me to return them to him. 250 rublesHe used it to pay for my lunch at the cafe. I thought it was too much, so I added this brazen man to the blacklist. I didn't answer the phone either.

At home, she could not resist dinner and told her parents about this strange acquaintance. But they just laughed. And my dad said it was good that my new boyfriend didn't give me flowers. Otherwise they would have to pay back the money. And it seems to me that it could well have happened, Anya is outraged.



It's really weird that a guy offers to pay for everything, and then He wants his money back.. And if this is really such a test, then it is quite strange. I wonder what kind of girl he is looking for, who after such checks will want to have a long-term relationship with him.

Maybe this guy's doing it right? Share your opinion in the comments.