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Everyone's jealous of my successful marriage, and I'm tired of showing my husband checks from the shops.
At first, the total control of the beloved flatters the woman, it seems to her that he loves her so much that he does not give a step. But when it comes to spending, this behavior is very annoying. Anna is married to a man 7 years older than her. Once her husband's frugality seemed to her a reasonable disposition of funds, but now everything has only worsened: Kohli had many fans before the wedding, even my friends looked at him. But there is one quality in Nikolai that has pissed me off for 10 years. Well, he is too frugal, Nastya says.
The wedding was modest, in the circle of the family. At the time, I was just graduating from university, looking for a job, so I agreed not to invite a lot of people. Even then, Kolya said that there is no sense in a large number of people, gifts from them will be inexpensive, they will not cover the costs of the wedding.
When I gave birth to my daughter, the cost was even higher. Kolya offered to save checks from the store to see what his salary was going on and whether we were buying something extra. Then I began to bring checks every day, and Kolya counted everything and gave money for new purchases. It seemed like a way out: there was really enough money for everything.
When I went to work after the decree, life became easier. I started buying not only what I needed, but also what I wanted. But despite the fact that I now earn, my husband continues to count every penny. He gets angry when I accidentally throw a check out of the store, makes me write a list so I don't buy too much.
Every day, all I hear is talk about money and how bad his boss is. I'm tired of fighting over what my paycheck costs. While my husband spends it on bills and groceries, I buy everyone’s clothes, the same groceries, and take care of my daughter’s school and dance expenses.
Kolya wants to control all expenses, and I can't do that anymore. After all these years, I was seriously considering divorce. It is impossible to live with a man who not only saves, he is greedy. And I'm a woman, and it wasn't until I had a daughter that I realized I couldn't save on everything.
When you raise a daughter, you look at things differently. Her own example should be taught to etiquette, self-care and adequate attitude to money. We earn money not only to survive, sometimes you want to enjoy life, and not just pay.
From the editorial office, Nicholas is a miser, of which there are many. It's amazing how Nastya was able to live with this man for so many years. Financial difficulties often cause people to conflict. But when it’s not about lack of money, but about attitudes toward it, reconciliation is almost impossible. The spouses either find a compromise or separate, the third is not given. If Anastasia can take care of herself and her daughter, maybe she should really divorce her husband, do you think?
The wedding was modest, in the circle of the family. At the time, I was just graduating from university, looking for a job, so I agreed not to invite a lot of people. Even then, Kolya said that there is no sense in a large number of people, gifts from them will be inexpensive, they will not cover the costs of the wedding.
When I gave birth to my daughter, the cost was even higher. Kolya offered to save checks from the store to see what his salary was going on and whether we were buying something extra. Then I began to bring checks every day, and Kolya counted everything and gave money for new purchases. It seemed like a way out: there was really enough money for everything.
When I went to work after the decree, life became easier. I started buying not only what I needed, but also what I wanted. But despite the fact that I now earn, my husband continues to count every penny. He gets angry when I accidentally throw a check out of the store, makes me write a list so I don't buy too much.
Every day, all I hear is talk about money and how bad his boss is. I'm tired of fighting over what my paycheck costs. While my husband spends it on bills and groceries, I buy everyone’s clothes, the same groceries, and take care of my daughter’s school and dance expenses.
Kolya wants to control all expenses, and I can't do that anymore. After all these years, I was seriously considering divorce. It is impossible to live with a man who not only saves, he is greedy. And I'm a woman, and it wasn't until I had a daughter that I realized I couldn't save on everything.
When you raise a daughter, you look at things differently. Her own example should be taught to etiquette, self-care and adequate attitude to money. We earn money not only to survive, sometimes you want to enjoy life, and not just pay.
From the editorial office, Nicholas is a miser, of which there are many. It's amazing how Nastya was able to live with this man for so many years. Financial difficulties often cause people to conflict. But when it’s not about lack of money, but about attitudes toward it, reconciliation is almost impossible. The spouses either find a compromise or separate, the third is not given. If Anastasia can take care of herself and her daughter, maybe she should really divorce her husband, do you think?
Do we need literature lessons at school, in 5 minutes we remember twenty literary masterpieces?
We paid for a communal apartment with my husband, noticed another card on his phone.