New daughter-in-law asked if she could call me mom

Strangers and loved ones People can surprise you. But not always close will surprise well, and someone else - bad. Perhaps that is why we like to entrust our secrets to a stranger. Like on a train. Tomorrow we will not remember each other, but to feel the warmth of support is always valuable. And you can add some tragedy, because the dialogue partner will never hear the other side.



Sometimes strangers get closer to their closest friends. Just for a little while. Editorial "Site" I'll share a similar story with you. A woman poured out her soul in the car, trying to solve a difficult life situation. And it is about what strangers are and what close ones are.

The son married, count when he was only twenty years old. Is there anything I wouldn't mind saying? One raised them, no one helped. My husband left when he was very young. Maybe that's why the son of the orphanage looked at the girl. I didn’t say anything, met quietly, without any special requests. The wedding wasn't the same. What can I scrape in there?



But soul to soul. Of course I was worried. Is it possible to create a normal family with an orphanage? I can see what's good for them. I have a dog, a dog, two cats. They both work, it's been five years. Two kids. them. Honestly, I'm not happy to see them.

And what struck me - Kostina's wife, Nadia, from the orphanage, who immediately came to me and said, like, Olga Vladimirovna, can I call you mother? I don't have my own parents, so let me make you my mother. Of course, I was a little taken aback from such a rush, it seemed insensitive to me, but I did not want to upset my son. Allowed.



And this Nadia, then, is such a bright girl. Though young, green, consider it at all, but the case is disputed. He'll come running to me, he'll start cleaning right away, he'll fix something, he's already making some cake in the oven. Look at it, and the pharmacy itself - smug! And here I am with the groceries, with the cleaning, with the pharmacy set, and she will smack me on the cheek and runs home. More kids, more Bones.

My friends and family were annoying at first. Here, I think, shamelessIt's all over the place. Did I ask her to do anything? But gradually I thawed. Well, because it's simple, simple. There is nothing evil or unsaid about it. That's the man he is. It's double. Battery, for God's sake. Not only does he charge his own, but so does I. I realized that this girl from the orphanage is much closer to me now than her own.



Yes, Bones has an older sister, Jeanne. Only she doesn't welcome us well. She got married too early, but the guy caught her: they have wealth, a house, two cars. And of course there are children. But if I see Kostin grandchildren often, then Zhankins rarely. In addition, Jeanne noticed that Nadia loved me very much. Here and there. problem.

One day Jeanne says to me, why is it that you, mother, are so fond of your daughter-in-law? For example, your son-in-law, my husband, doesn't have that kind of honor. What's worse? And I, yours. daughterWhy did you fall out of favor? How come you're smiling at her now and you don't even call me? I say, Jeanne, she comes to me almost every day, and I see you once a month. So why shouldn't I respect her?



Zhanka got mad. Oh, he says. Then choose - either me and my family, or this orphanage splinter! You'll see, she'll give you another bandwagon. All of you! Until you say goodbye to her, I don't want to know you. Neither my husband nor my children are here. And she was. Thank goodness neither Kostya nor Nadia heard this. What a shame, my God! I don't know why. For my daughter-in-law calling me mom.

There may be some advice for this woman. We will hardly ever be able to find her, but there is hope that she will read this article and look in the commentary. Good people. They can always help with advice. So do not be shy and be sure to share your opinion about what you think about your own and others. What should we do in such a situation so that everyone will be well?



Strangers and loved ones People behave differently: someone jules, and someone opens the heart. And on top of that is our bias. How do you please everyone? Read our article on how to learn to respect your partner and how the climate in the family depends on it. Thank you for staying with us!