From the joy that the guests are already leaving, I gave everyone cupcakes, I promise myself not to have feasts for the rest of my days.

Nowadays, there is a tradition to gather a large number of people at one table. Most often it happens during holidays such as birthday, New Year or other family events. However, the feast is gradually coming to its logical end. Why? There are several reasons.



If earlier our grandparents collected a table for all relatives somewhere in the yard near the house, now such events take place either in an apartment or in a cafe or restaurant. As it is already clear, a standard living space will hardly pull such a load, and cafes and restaurants cost a lot of money.



Especially now, when the ruble is falling rapidly, and prices are rising, you need to competently approach their capabilities. Lots of people, lots of dishes. Lots of food, lots of food. Purchasing products requires effort and finance. Accordingly, each guest reception will fly into a considerable penny. Not to mention the cooking itself, which can take a lot of time. And that's if you forget about the pickiness of some guests.



Often at the table there are 1-2 people who will begin to softly criticize your home or kitchen. Agree, few hostess is pleased to hear that potatoes could be cooked differently or that baked chicken is not very given. Even worse, if there are those who will begin to estimate the cost of arranging your home (furniture, paintings, books, etc.) and compare with what they were served on the table.



Also, do not forget that a large company tends to diverge for a long time. That is, to receive guests, you need to allocate a couple of days to prepare well, and then relax. Only then can we return to the normal rhythm of life. Not the best scenario for introverts who prefer small companies and are not set to entertain large numbers of people.

Yes, and in general in our time, great feasts are a luxury that can be afforded only on the most important dates. And only if you have your own desire. Many young housewives are taught from an early age that it is their duty to invite and serve guests, even if it is contrary to their desire. If grandparents did, their granddaughters should.



Peels But, no. Nobody owes anyone anything. And if the hostess does not like to arrange feasts, does not want to be in big company and does not approve of flooding with relatives of his living space, this is normal. Its decisions and capabilities must be respected. And the more people understand and accept this, the better.

The remnants of the past do not coincide with the realities of today. If there were some opportunities before, they may not exist now. If earlier the approach to receiving guests was one, now it can be completely different. And that's perfectly acceptable.



Reception of guests should be a joy for both guests and hosts. There is nothing good about one side being forced to play joy and do something against their will. There must be harmony in any relationship. Family traditions are not an argument here. Dinner is good. But you have to be smart about everything.