I proposed to my beloved in public, but she refused, I can’t understand if our relationship is now over.

Many women dream of going under the crown. However, not everyone is ready for this. You can meet a young man for a long time and see him as the only one. And when he finally gets on one knee and extends the engagement ring, the girl falls into a stupor and insecurely says: “I need to think.” But does it mean refuseThat the relationship is over? Today we will look at this with the example of a story.



Peels Refusing to Marry Natasha and I have been dating since 11th grade. Together we entered the capital university, so as not to part. She graduated with a red diploma and I graduated with a C. I was a humanitarian, so I almost immediately got into self-education and hit it.



In general, I could have left uni a long time ago, but I promised Natasha that I would get a diploma. I always keep my word no matter what it is. During our university years, we lived in a dormitory. And after graduation, they decided to move in and rent a small apartment in one of the sleeping areas.

At first it was not easy, although I was sure that after so many years spent together, we would not have any problems of a domestic nature. But things happen in life. There were quarrels and resentments. I think that's normal. Despite all the difficulties, I loved Natasha and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. Sometimes I dreamed of marriage and children. I saw myself as a caring husband and father.



But at the same time, I was thinking about getting married closer to 30. I wanted to get on my feet, get a foothold at work and not need anything. I admit, Natasha and I never discussed this. Although I've been thinking for a long time that maybe Natasha is waiting for me to finally propose to her. In addition, my mother began to pressure me: “Artem, while you are ripe, I will have time to grow old!” I already want grandchildren. Go to the jewellery for the ring.

I thought for a long time and decided that my mother was right. By then, I was already making good money and saving money. He did not skimp on the ring and chose the most beautiful with his mother. And then he invited Natasha to dinner at a restaurant: the anniversary of our relationship was approaching. Natasha is pretty enough, but she outdid herself that night. Luxury dress, hairstyle and makeup - she seemed to know that I would propose to her!



Peels But the reality was very different. When, in the presence of the whole room, I got on one knee and handed Natasha a ring, she changed dramatically in her face. In movies, usually at this point, girls begin to cry with happiness and throw themselves on the shoulders of their boyfriends with a joyful "yes" on their lips. But my Natasha smiled awkwardly and said, “Honey, I need to think.”

I had no idea that this was possible. How do you feel about her refusal to marry me? We spent the rest of the evening in silence. The next day I said I had to visit my mother and I went to the village. I really wanted to think about what to do next. There is a feeling that our relationship is over. Why else would she refuse me?



Peels Mom tells me not to jump to conclusions. But I can see that her attitude towards Natasha has changed dramatically. She doesn't want my girlfriend to be her daughter-in-law anymore. And it hurts me. I've been home for a couple of days, but Natasha never called me. I don't know what's going on and what I've done wrong!

Refusal to marry does not mean that the relationship is over, and love has passed. First of all, Natasha did not refuse Artem, but asked him to give her time to think. Secondly, it is obvious that the hero invited his girlfriend to marry under the pressure of his mother. And he wasn't ready for it. One can draw a simple conclusion: the heroine of the story could just as well be unprepared for marriage as her young man.



Both Artem and Natasha are in a situation where you need to breathe out and just talk to each other. A guy shouldn't sit in his mother's village and wait for his girlfriend to call him. It is time to pull ourselves together and resolve the brewing conflict before it enters a phase of total silence. Agreed?

What advice would you give to the hero of today’s history?