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The friend is all tired, calling and crying, will sleep with her husband in separate rooms. My radiant colleagues comforted her.
A lot of couples are guessing. How to maintain a strong and successful marriage. They say that to do this, you need to stop sleeping with your spouse under the same blanket. And ideally, enjoy sleep if not in different rooms, then at least in different beds. Why this is necessary, we will discuss in today’s article. And at the end, we'll share the women's side of the editorial board. "Site".
Recently, a statement on social media read: “If you sleep with your husband under different blankets or in different beds, this is the beginning of the end.” This will certainly lead to divorce. But is that really true?
I want to share my story, or my parents’ story. They have been together for over 30 years, half of whom slept in the same bed. Fortunately blankets were different, because waking up in the morning without it is very unpleasant. But what if one of the spouses always pulls him off the other?
At one point, my mother got tired of listening to her father’s endless snoring, which made her corny not get enough sleep. And when I fluttered out of my parent's nest, mom and dad started sleeping in separate rooms. And believe me, it was their best decision of the whole marriage.
Dad can lie in the middle of the bed and not disturb anyone, and mom finally began to get enough sleep, isolating himself from excessive noise. Has their marriage become less stable? Hardly. After all, if you think about it, the strength of a relationship does not depend on who sleeps and where.
For more than 2 years I have been living in a rented apartment with my boyfriend. We are lucky: there is a large comfortable bed in the apartment. So there's room for everyone. However, I already know that I would not mind sleeping separately in my bed.
I am convinced that this will significantly improve the quality of my sleep. However, this will not affect our relations at all. Sleeping under the same blanket with a loved one is hell for me. I like to have a personal space and not depend on anyone. But you can just hug in any other situation.
The practical side of the question of joint sleep one way or another influences sleep quality - it's a fact. Spouses may have different schedules (some wake up and go to bed earlier and some later) or differing temperature requirements. Even worse, when the husband snores all night and the wife has a very sensitive sleep. Sleeping separately is more of a necessity than a desire.
Separate sleep is not an indicator of conflict in a couple or a harbinger of divorce. A successful marriage is only possible if Spouses can listen to each other’s needs.. If the partners do not know how to do this, no sleep together will help them to save the relationship.
Many women are afraid to sleep apart from their husband, because they think that romance will disappear in their marriage. However, this is not a reason to deprive yourself of various pleasures and intimacy. On the contrary, a separate dream can be an impetus to start dating with your husband again and allocate time for an interesting joint pastime.
To maintain a successful marriage, it is not necessary to sleep with your husband in the same bed and under the same blanket. A vivid example of this is the relationship between Angelica Varum and Leonid Agutin, who have been together for more than 25 years.
“We often live in different rooms on tour. We all have our own bedroom at home. I have mine, my wife has mine. Everyone has their own personal space. I can come to my wife's bedroom for a date or she can come to me. Everyone reads a book or watches a movie before going to bed. This (separate rooms) just keeps the family very well, says the famous musician.
My brilliant colleagues agreed that Separate sleep of spouses is a common practice. The main thing is that both husband and wife are comfortable. Such issues should be resolved jointly, taking into account the point of view and wishes of each spouse. One thing is clear: to tolerate what you do not like is wrong. Don’t be afraid to talk to your husband about these things.
Is it OK to sleep in separate beds with your husband?
Recently, a statement on social media read: “If you sleep with your husband under different blankets or in different beds, this is the beginning of the end.” This will certainly lead to divorce. But is that really true?
I want to share my story, or my parents’ story. They have been together for over 30 years, half of whom slept in the same bed. Fortunately blankets were different, because waking up in the morning without it is very unpleasant. But what if one of the spouses always pulls him off the other?
At one point, my mother got tired of listening to her father’s endless snoring, which made her corny not get enough sleep. And when I fluttered out of my parent's nest, mom and dad started sleeping in separate rooms. And believe me, it was their best decision of the whole marriage.
Dad can lie in the middle of the bed and not disturb anyone, and mom finally began to get enough sleep, isolating himself from excessive noise. Has their marriage become less stable? Hardly. After all, if you think about it, the strength of a relationship does not depend on who sleeps and where.
For more than 2 years I have been living in a rented apartment with my boyfriend. We are lucky: there is a large comfortable bed in the apartment. So there's room for everyone. However, I already know that I would not mind sleeping separately in my bed.
I am convinced that this will significantly improve the quality of my sleep. However, this will not affect our relations at all. Sleeping under the same blanket with a loved one is hell for me. I like to have a personal space and not depend on anyone. But you can just hug in any other situation.
The practical side of the question of joint sleep one way or another influences sleep quality - it's a fact. Spouses may have different schedules (some wake up and go to bed earlier and some later) or differing temperature requirements. Even worse, when the husband snores all night and the wife has a very sensitive sleep. Sleeping separately is more of a necessity than a desire.
Separate sleep is not an indicator of conflict in a couple or a harbinger of divorce. A successful marriage is only possible if Spouses can listen to each other’s needs.. If the partners do not know how to do this, no sleep together will help them to save the relationship.
Many women are afraid to sleep apart from their husband, because they think that romance will disappear in their marriage. However, this is not a reason to deprive yourself of various pleasures and intimacy. On the contrary, a separate dream can be an impetus to start dating with your husband again and allocate time for an interesting joint pastime.
To maintain a successful marriage, it is not necessary to sleep with your husband in the same bed and under the same blanket. A vivid example of this is the relationship between Angelica Varum and Leonid Agutin, who have been together for more than 25 years.
“We often live in different rooms on tour. We all have our own bedroom at home. I have mine, my wife has mine. Everyone has their own personal space. I can come to my wife's bedroom for a date or she can come to me. Everyone reads a book or watches a movie before going to bed. This (separate rooms) just keeps the family very well, says the famous musician.
My brilliant colleagues agreed that Separate sleep of spouses is a common practice. The main thing is that both husband and wife are comfortable. Such issues should be resolved jointly, taking into account the point of view and wishes of each spouse. One thing is clear: to tolerate what you do not like is wrong. Don’t be afraid to talk to your husband about these things.
Is it OK to sleep in separate beds with your husband?
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