I wanted to grow old together, because I got married after 50, but in life there were more household worries and grievances. Bashny.Net

Fear of loneliness is a terrible thing, because many women think about marriage even in adulthood. Everyone has different situations. Someone has lost their spouse, and someone has been busy with a career for a long time, for example. Should you have a serious relationship after 50? And what motivates people to do that, we're discussing today.

Few people in adulthood dream of great and unusual love. Most of us are already. It was far from the same relationship.. We know that you can meet with many people. Relationships do not come out of nothingness suddenly. They are built on common hobbies, deep emotions that are based on similarity, as well as mutual sympathy.



But the older we get, We are more conservative in certain aspects.. It is much more difficult for us to adapt and adapt to someone else. A romantic relationship requires development and internal change, even when it is not People accept you as you are..



This is especially true for those who have been completely independent for a long time. An independent life can be beautiful. It's great not to report to anyone and live for pleasure. This gives many pleasant privileges that relate to both life and personal life. For example, you can easily be friends with many men and not hear from your spouse reproaches because of this.



Living together together means living together. large-scale. At least the two of you have to agree on a lot of routine things. For example, cleaning, purchasing products, etc. If you’ve been doing it yourself for a long time, then you definitely already have a certain mode and system. Not everyone wants to change it, even in the name of love.



On the other hand, current trends in relationships tell us that You don't have to live together.. You can come to each other or even spend the night from time to time, but remain independent in terms of life. It's the same with your personal life. It's coming up more and more. freelanceAlthough this option is suitable for a very small number of people.



All aspects of the traditional relationship model can be adapted. for the needs of a particular couple. Everything can be discussed and changed in such a way that everyone is happy and comfortable. Moreover, you and your partner can try to live according to some invented scheme. changing it when you feel it is not suitable for someone. It is only important that all changes occur in the course of calm discussion, and not scandal and debriefing.

What else is important to remember about marriage after 50? The main thing is not to forget that each of us is individual and has his own. preferences and life experiences. These things define us as a person. Do not blindly follow the example of others. If your friend got married after 50, there is no guarantee that this option will also suit you.





Perhaps she is used to being in a relationship with her late husband and now little has changed for her. But you, for example, lived for a long time on your own, and you will have to get used to a new person and in general to a different life. Love is beautiful, but it is difficult to distinguish it from love and passion.. Is it worth sacrificing your usual way of life, in which you feel good, for the sake of simple passion?