Vasily asks me to get married, and I keep thinking, I do not want to become a daughter-in-law in someone else’s house again in 50 years.

Relationship with a man You can get involved in your 50s, even when you're a little over 60. The main thing is that the feelings are sincere and the thoughts are pure. However, not all women manage to open up to a new person at this age. It seems that you are no longer able to truly love, and get married and completely ashamed. About whether to drive yourself into a stupid framework, thought Elena Dmitrievna, the heroine of our history. What happened, read further in the article.



I divorced my husband at 50 years ago. I found out that he was cheating on me with a younger lady, and immediately threw Bear out the door. At first, I walked away from what happened, but I realized that this was not the end of my life. Especially since I had enough trouble without it.

A couple of years after the divorce, my daughter got married. My son-in-law moved in and soon I became a grandmother. Now we're living in four: Slim with my husband, me and my granddaughter Katyusha. To be honest, I didn’t think my life would change. I'm used to it, I often devote all my time to my family.



But a year ago, a new man appeared in my life. His name is Vasily and he is 53 years old. I felt like a girl again next to him. As a true gallant gentleman, Vasily takes care of me, gives flowers and even invites me to the theater sometimes.

This man does his best to make me feel safe next to him. I used to think I could never fall in love again. But Vasily convinced me of something else, and that's fine.



I was flowing with new feelings and didn’t think it would lead to anything serious. But recently Vasily asked me to get married. Just like in the movies, he got on one knee and handed me a wedding ring. I was speechless at that moment. I thought about it because I am 50 years old. Are they under the crown at this age?

"Will you marry me?" Vasily asked confidently, “Will you marry me?” And I, as if repeating the script of a cheap melodrama, said that I need to think. I didn't lie. Disturbing thoughts have been on me all night. My wife lives with a mother who needs to be taken care of. That's why he's not ready to move out, and if we get married, we'll all live together.



Firstly, I already had a mother-in-law, and I know that it is not always possible to establish contact with her. I don’t know how two women will share the same house. I am sure that conflicts may arise on this basis.



When my daughter found out about everything, she advised me to meet Vasily’s mother first. I need to know what kind of person she is and if I can get along with her. It’s not a bad idea, but will Vasily understand me? It seems like nothing, and I'm scared like a schoolgirl. Maybe that's the real feeling.

From the editorial board of Love, of course, all ages are submissive, but the older you get, the more you think about the consequences of your actions. Let’s imagine that Elena Dmitrievna without hesitation agrees to marry Vasily. He then moved in and became the second owner of the house.



Recall that the heroine is 50 years old, she is a mature woman with her own habits and foundations. What is the probability that her life coordinate system will intersect with her new mother-in-law's? Advising a daughter to meet the mother of a potential groom is a great idea. Only after that, it will be possible to think carefully and make an informed decision. Agreed?

I wonder what would you do in the place of Elena Dmitrievna? Do you believe that a relationship with a man can be successful even in 50 years?