Cleaning among friends: 12 types of girlfriends that are better to communicate with at a distance For my own good!

Enjoy your surroundings in a truly loyal and close friends - that's great. After all, we all need spiritual communication, fun and support. Sometimes we get burned by trusting the wrong person. But there is still a category of people who seem to do you no special harm, at least visible, but at the same time pull to the bottom or take away your faith in yourself. These are parasites.





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They seem to be harmless, but it is better to communicate with them less often and at a good distance. There are 12 types of “friends” that the editorial board will tell you about. "Site".

Bad friends.

1. Whisperers
   There are people who are always bad. They love talking about it nonstop. Then they have a bunch of diseases, and most likely only in words, then there is not enough money, then the husband is bad, the children do not obey, the boss is smitten... Anyway, just sit down and cry. From such a flow of whining and negativity, you yourself unwittingly become a bore who has everything bad.
   
   
   
   

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Advisers
Once in the book “The Richest Man in Babylon” I read that advice should be asked only from a person who is competent in this matter (for health from a doctor, for relationships with a happy family...). But often among friends there is a person who likes to give advice to the right and left. He always has instructions and ready-made advice for all occasions, despite the fact that he is probably not very lucky in life. He just likes to be useful. Do you need that training?





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Envious
You're all so happy and talk about your achievements or your dreams. And this person listens to you with an enthusiastic look and says, "If I were as lucky as you are," "You're happy, I never dreamed of it!" And then after a while you see that this person imitates your actions, and when something goes wrong, blames you for it. But tell him about the failure, and he will tell his friends about it with a smile on his face.





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Ideal
Usually, all adventures begin with the phrase: “Let’s....” But the problems also begin with this phrase. For example, in the head of a friend from idleness always come different ideas, she incites your whole company to certain actions. He will always tell you what to wear, where to go or offer to eat only fruits. Only very persistent people can withstand such pressure. And if you refuse, they start accusing you of being selfish and being a bad friend. But we are adults, not herds. We need to respect each other’s interests without imposing our thoughts.





Mindless
There are people who live one day. They burn through this life, attend all sorts of parties, and in the morning they do not understand where they are. Their friends and companies change almost every week. For a serious person it will be a real stress. After all, you need to break your plans and habitual way of life in order to vomit. It can be fun and interesting at first. But true friendship You will not find support in such people. They just don't care. They want to enjoy, not deal with your problems.





Beggars
Every time you go out for coffee, he's either forgotten his wallet, or the card is locked, or he's just going to ignore it, or he's going to say, "Throw it away, I'll buy it next time." But next time it's the same. Or ask for help with the position, solve the problem with some authority, and in return nothing. Such a man-leech will always pull something from you, and in the end, you will be to blame for his troubles.



Twats.
He always speaks, regardless of place, time or mood. Can talk for hours about everything and nothing, and all your attempts to stop the conversation will fail. The most important thing in life is empty words. It usually doesn’t get to the point, and they spend most of their time in unnecessary conversations. From such a friend you will not expect any help or special understanding.



Selfish
Any conversation the egoist translates to his person, and he may not even ask how you are. And in response to "Yesterday I left my husband," you will probably hear: "Yes, bad." And how terrible it was for me yesterday when it turned out that Svetka bought the same sandals. And in general, he believes that all your merits are possible only through friendship with him.



Irritated
If you have a friend around you who is always in a mood and has unreasonable outbursts of anger, run away from him. Stupid antics, nerves, irritation... After meeting such a person, you probably feel like a lemon.



hamas
These people are sure to have a very strange phrase or trick to hurt your feelings. They may ask a ridiculous question, which will have to blush, give an inappropriate joke. Everyone seems to laugh, rejoice, praise such a person for a good mood, and you want to fall into the ground. And any comments and requests not to joke anymore, he just ignores.



Critics
Criticism from a good friend is helpful. But if it turns into a daily ritual, and all you do is listen to comments, it's not healthy. Most likely, he is dissatisfied with his life and feels like a loser, and at your expense he is trying to assert himself.



The ungrateful
He's used to brazenly stealing your time. You always have to do something for him, go somewhere or go, or just wait a long time. But if such requests arise from you, such a friend will remain on the sidelines.





Choose friends that you are comfortable with. As soon as you feel discomfort or upon coming home you understand that the forces after communicating with this person once again left you, keep him at a distance. The most important thing in this life is to be happy and needed. Share useful information with your friends on social networks!

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