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A typical story: he works, earns, disappears at work, and then at one point – fired or decided to change the field of activity. He was home for a couple of months and then... Eventually. man wants nothing It hides behind depression, or because the world is unfair and its smart girl is not taken anywhere without a fee, or too high demands and little pay. He just liked being lazy.
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Husbands like that don't even make sense at home. Editorial "Site" will tell how to beat laziness husband. Immediately make a reservation: we will not talk about pathological sloths, because they no longer stir. But if the husband has a prolonged depression or midlife crisis, then you need to act carefully.
Family life is not a set of rules, of course. Now many husbands can go on maternity leave instead of a wife if she has a better position, or work from home as a freelancer. In any case, he must contribute to the family, regardless of whether it is a classical arrangement or not.
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But if he strokes his belly all day, watches TV, plays computer games, eats and sours, you need to act without fail. But first you need to take a sober look at the situation: it happens that women themselves pull over all the duties of a husband or behave like mothers. If so, then you need to change your behavior, and if the husband is still lying, then use the following tips.
How to Motivate Your Husband to Act
A husband cannot spontaneously become lazy. It's a rather lengthy process. To solve the problem, you need to analyze the weather in the house and the role of each family member. To avoid such a situation, you need to clearly state your duties and your husband, so that everyone knows what to do. And, of course, you should not saw your husband and throw tantrums. You should be a muse, not a nagging aunt.
All men are different, and only you can find the right approach. And never scold your husband in public.
Tell us in the comments if you have experienced your husband’s laziness. Share an article with your friends on social media!
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Husbands like that don't even make sense at home. Editorial "Site" will tell how to beat laziness husband. Immediately make a reservation: we will not talk about pathological sloths, because they no longer stir. But if the husband has a prolonged depression or midlife crisis, then you need to act carefully.
Family life is not a set of rules, of course. Now many husbands can go on maternity leave instead of a wife if she has a better position, or work from home as a freelancer. In any case, he must contribute to the family, regardless of whether it is a classical arrangement or not.
DepositPhotos
But if he strokes his belly all day, watches TV, plays computer games, eats and sours, you need to act without fail. But first you need to take a sober look at the situation: it happens that women themselves pull over all the duties of a husband or behave like mothers. If so, then you need to change your behavior, and if the husband is still lying, then use the following tips.
How to Motivate Your Husband to Act
- Talk to me.
In the perpetual rush and trouble, we often miss the opportunity to just talk. Perhaps the husband feels a misunderstanding or thinks that all his efforts are in vain. This can be the cause of prolonged depression. Start the conversation with something positive, and then in a calm tone report that you are experiencing and at the same time unable to pull all the worries on yourself. Also, maybe he doesn't realize it's bad. When you need help, talk about it directly. He can't guess everything by himself.
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Perhaps, lying on the couch, the husband forgot that he was a warrior and a breadwinner. Sometimes tell him that here a friend/colleagues husband brought the family to the resort, repaired, the site is beautifully designed, the child for additional courses sent. Without scandal or reproach, talk like news. A normal man will want more and better.
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Again, a man simply has no incentive to act. Everyone needs words of support. It is important to understand that your work and efforts are appreciated. Remember what talents he has, take up a common hobby. Say the words of motivation and admire them. Let him know that you and the children love him and want to see his care and support.
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A dangerous but effective method with some men. There are husbands who can only be taken by storm. Stop often cooking his favorite dishes, they say, there is no money for food. Don't wash your jeans because the plumbing is broken, let him fix it. And things like that. Maybe it will make him look at the situation objectively.
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A husband cannot spontaneously become lazy. It's a rather lengthy process. To solve the problem, you need to analyze the weather in the house and the role of each family member. To avoid such a situation, you need to clearly state your duties and your husband, so that everyone knows what to do. And, of course, you should not saw your husband and throw tantrums. You should be a muse, not a nagging aunt.
All men are different, and only you can find the right approach. And never scold your husband in public.
Tell us in the comments if you have experienced your husband’s laziness. Share an article with your friends on social media!
Photo by depositphotos preview.
