My mother tried on me absolutely all folk ways of healing from everything.

Unhealthy. family atmosphere They will leave their mark on the future life of children. Much depends on parents and their approach to education. And he's not always true. Endless reproaches and bullying on the part of the mother – what faced Natalia, the heroine of our history today. How her adult life developed after all this, read further in the article.



I have always had a hard time in my family. I remember standing silently at the prom, and my mother was constantly pushing me in the back, saying, "Why are you standing in the corner like a stump?" Go dance like all normal children. But how could I be different if my mother was always bullying me?

All my life she has compared me to my older sister Vera. Like, look at Verochka, how good she is: and smart, and beautiful, and at school she is doing well. I've always been a failure in my mother's eyes. Whatever grade I got, she looked at me with reproach and said, "You can do better, go learn!"



For a long time I was not even allowed to walk outside. While all the neighborhood kids were playing games with each other and having fun, I was sitting at home reading books. I have never been to a disco because, according to my mother’s logic, I had nothing to do there. She always downplayed my achievements and talents. What am I talking about? She said plainly that I was incompetent, whatever I did.

My mother had a certain obsession with my health. She was sure there was something wrong with me. I spent half my childhood in hospitals. If the doctor said I was healthy after the exam, we would go to another doctor until someone said I was sick.



My mother tried on me absolutely all the folk methods of treatment for everything in the world. I ended up in a hospital bed. But my mother drove me away. After that incident, I packed all my things and left my parents. I was still at university and could get a dormitory. By the way, I got into the budget, despite all my mother's predictions. She said I wouldn't even get a contract.

A new life I began to arrange my life. She got a good job, got married. I tried to prove to my parents that I was worth something. As a result, she received two higher and even defended her thesis. But none of this impressed my mother. She tells everyone she knows how bad I am.



I'm doing just fine right now. I am 35 years old, my husband and I have a great relationship, we are raising our son Vitaly. By the way, he does boxing and learns to play the guitar. My husband is also a businessman. In general, the atmosphere in the family is most favorable.

My mother, by the way, always says that such a man will not last long with me, he will leave me soon. But we've been together for almost 11 years. I recently found out I was pregnant. I bought a cake and went to visit my mother. And she looked at me like a fool and said, "You don't pull the first one, where do you get the second one?" Don't even give birth!

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My husband at home comforted me for a long time. He said he couldn't go on like this anymore and that we'd better stop talking to my relatives for a while. It would be better for our baby. Maybe he's right. I spent so many years trying to please my mother. She just doesn't care about me.

We don't know why Natalia's mother behaved this way all her life. She may have dreamed of having a son. And she blamed her second daughter for not doing so. Or maybe she has a serious disorder that should have been treated years ago.



Anyway, it's great that Natalia was finally able to see things differently. We hope that her husband’s support will help her end her toxic relationship with her mother once and for all. What do you think about that?