Failure in life means dreaming that everything will change, but doing nothing about it. Bashny.Net

What do you think the biggest and saddest failures in life look like? What should be done to avoid them? It is on this topic that we propose to discuss today!

And before proceeding to the discussion in the comments, we share our own thoughts and opinions of Mikhail Labkovsky on this issue. I wonder if you would agree with a well-known psychologist.

Most people believe that life has failed if there is no luxury and wealth. Like, living with parents in adulthood or low-paid work - these are the sure signs that you are facing an extremely unlucky man.



In the case of women, for some reason, it is customary to consider those who, after 30 years, have not got a husband and at least two mischievous children.

Even if a woman has reached great heights in her business, but at the same time was left alone, everyone will feel sorry for her. The brand of a cat girl who stayed in the girls is provided to her ...



For some reason, few people think that such people are sometimes the happiest in the world. And the fact that real failures look completely different from what is commonly thought of in society.

The real failure is to put up with imposed stereotypes and live someone else’s life. This is a way to delay the fulfillment of your true desires (which will never come). It is to wake up day after day with the thought that you need to gather again for a hated job, and wish for only one thing: to return home as soon as possible and plunge back into dreams.



The failure of which the truth is worth grieving is to share bed and life with the most delightful man on earth, knowing that you want to be near someone else, and continue to martyr yourself as an exemplary spouse.



Going home to the most economical and sweet wife and the most beautiful children and realizing that all this does not warm your soul - that's what real failure is. When marriage is only an obligation, not a sacred union of two loving hearts.



“The real failure is the constant dream of change and total inaction,” writes Mikhail Labkovsky.



What do you think about that? Feel free to share your thoughts on the topic in the comments! We will be happy to discuss this issue with you in more detail!