What men prefer to keep silent about

Women and men seem to have come from different planets, so it is not easy for them to find a common language. Not surprisingly, even in family relationships, there are many conflicts that, if they do not lead to a final breakup, definitely make life much less pleasant for both.

How do you build? harmonious relationship between man and woman? Editorial "Site" He believes that this can be achieved only by starting to speak in an understandable language, without hints and omissions, which will help to immediately understand the problems and immediately start solving them. Without waiting, patience and accumulating resentment.





Relationship between men and women
  1. Not hinting, but speaking directly.
    Men are not telepathic, and their emotional intelligence is worse. Therefore, to convey something to your loved one with the help of hints from a woman does not always work. Even the true emotions of a lover for a man often remain a mystery. Therefore, if you need to convey something, it is easier to say directly, and not to hint and be offended that you do not understand.



  2. Less criticism, more praise
    No one likes criticism, so why would a woman decide her man was the exception? And even if a remark is to be made, such a conversation must begin from afar, with praise and recognition of strengths.
  3. Quiet more often
    Women don’t always talk more than men. When it comes to making decisions, men can talk a lot. But it should be understood that after a difficult day at work, a man does not always have the strength and desire to discuss some family matters. And it's worth understanding.



  4. Don't argue occasionally.
    Women are more likely to start family disputes and, accordingly, more often aimed at winning them. However, men often hate to argue with the opposite sex, because they consider women’s arguments emotional and illogical.
  5. Don't try to re-educate
    It is normal when a loved one does not like a character trait. However, attempts to re-educate will not lead to anything good. It is very important for a man to always be courageous. And allowing yourself to be reeducated is putting your masculinity at risk. Therefore, such pressure will cause anxiety, resistance and discord in the relationship.



  6. Don't distract from work
    The difference is that the male brain is more difficult to switch between different tasks. Therefore, constant phone calls from your loved one, when you try to concentrate, are not only annoying, but also distracting from work, require great effort to concentrate again. A woman should understand this and call only if necessary. 850280



  7. Take care of yourself
    Every man wants to see a happy woman. But even when he notices that he is tired, he can’t always help her. Therefore, it is better if a woman takes care of herself more often. And if you have long wanted to meet with friends, go to a massage or read a book you bought, then you should not postpone it.



  8. More trust.
    In a relationship without trust, nowhere. And it is extremely important for a man that his beloved trusts his words, deeds, decisions. Interestingly, men are more intolerant of the physical infidelity of their wives, while women suffer more from the emotional infidelity of their loved one, not wanting to accept that the beloved spends his time and resources on someone else.





Of course, with all the desire we could not list all the requests that men wish to address their women. Yes, and the fair sex probably have their claims.

Nevertheless, we believe that relationship Only then will they be happy and harmonious, when everyone can be honest not only with himself, but also with his beloved person. So we need to be more open with each other. Isn't it?

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