What mistakes women make in relationships Bashny.Net

When we fall in love and begin to build relationships, we think that everything will be fine and everything will go according to plan. But often it is far from the truth, at some stage it begins. relationship problems. We just have to worry about what went wrong. No one has given us the instruction to love, so it is common for people to make mistakes.





But, in addition, you also need to notice these mistakes and learn from them. Everyone makes mistakes, men are not at all sinless, but today the editorial office "Site" It is about what a woman cannot do in a relationship. Share your opinion. Radislav Gandapas - the most famous and titled business coach of the country.

According to Radislav Gandapas, the worst thing a woman can do in a relationship is to say, “I don’t need your help, I can do it myself.” The point is not so much in household trifles, although they are also important, but in relation to the man as a whole. No one says that a woman should be weak and depend on a man, but you should not refuse his help.

Radislav says that it is very important for a man to take care of a woman and receive praise in return. That's how men are made, and there's nothing you can do about it. The most interesting thing is that we hear it from a man, and we think he knows what he's talking about.





In fact, men are very dependent on women, although they will never say it directly. Radislav notes, “A man is, of course, a scoundrel.” He will do everything to prove how independent he is and that he can do without it. But we can't do it without women. Perhaps we only prove that we can because we know in our hearts how much we depend on women.”





Therefore, Gandapas advises women not to take a man’s words literally. Especially do not argue with a man, because it is stupid and meaningless. Always try to find another way out than a useless argument. Unobjective arguments are another mistake in a relationship.





But do not take it in this way: sit, be silent, be weak and weak. It's not about that, it's about showing a man that you need him. It is important to convey to him that you need him. It is impossible not to quote Radislav: “Being strong does not mean not needing anyone.”

A woman does not marry because she is weak and needs money, status or anything else. We begin a relationship wanting care, love and tenderness. However, men tend to generalize. If you tell him you don’t need his help and support, he thinks more broadly, “She doesn’t need me.”





This is why marriages that have been built over the years are ruined. This is how a man works, he will look for someone who will need him. By nature, all men are knights, they need someone to save and protect. Why do you think they go to young provincial women who are nothing? Yes, because he can save her, and she will show how much she needs him.

The second thing to say is compliments. You can not devalue what your chosen one does and take for granted. Compliment is an element of care. If a person gives you a compliment, then you are important to him, he appreciates you. Without it, men cannot, they need this support.





Radislav says: “A man has such a congenital disease incurable, which leads to death – self-love.” The facts of female duels are unknown, because women do not get sick with self-love. But men suffer from it, it itches, itches all their life. If a woman knows how to calm this monstrous itch with her recognition, praise and approval, a man will be with his doctor for the rest of his life.

We think this is a very successful metaphor, because it conveys the essence of the relationship between a man and a woman. If you constantly pick up this ulcer called self-love, a man will reflexively want to distance himself and escape. If you keep saying, "Let me do it, you can't do it," "What are you doing?" Let me do it myself," "You won't succeed," he'll run from you wherever his eyes look. Or rather, one who will comfort him with praise and recognition.





On the other hand, in no case can not feed the ego of a man at his own expense. If you do something better and cooler than him, it will even be good. A man doesn't accept you as a rival. It's more like, "I have a great and successful woman." That's my woman.





Husband and wife are one, your victories will encourage him to work on himself. You don’t have to sit back and be afraid to do something so as not to hurt your ego. Achieve success, strive for new heights, and this way you will become better together. That's the only way it works. Don't make mistakes and be happy in a relationship!