Gossipers will be happy to divorce at 52 for their first love

When the years take their toll, there are warm memories that warm the soul in the evenings. At the age of 53, Lilia Ivanovna is the grandmother of two grandchildren and a caring wife. Everything went on in her life until she met someone from the past. And then the old feelings flashed into her heart, she did not forget about her first love for a minute.



When youth passes, maturity comes, then old age. I don’t think you could ever change everything. I've been married for 35 happy years. My husband and I never quarreled, always lived peacefully. Vanya is my support and support. Over the years, we have become good comrades, always take care of each other, single friends at the entrance are jealous when we go under the handle to the store.



I never thought I’d be in the difficult situation I’ve been in recently. It's like a melodrama. I thought that didn’t happen in real life. But it happened. In the park, I met my first love, my classmate Boris. He was walking alone, it turned out that he was not married.



We started talking to him, he said that he got divorced 5 years ago and he has a similar situation. I can't say anything bad about my husband, but he and I are like strangers. In everyday life everything is fine, but we almost do not communicate, only silently take care of each other, because so it is supposed.



And Borea and I were kind of lost in space all these years and suddenly attracted to each other at the behest of fate. And I thought, since we didn't do it at school, maybe we can do it now. My children are adults and I feel that Boris is not indifferent to me. Maybe I made it up because I started thinking about him all the time.



Sometimes I'm even willing to talk to Vanya about a divorce. Let's break up like adults, no offense or scenes. And I'm not at the age where people pay attention to what people say. I want to live the rest of my life well. Only I understand that the children will not approve of such a decision. They love their father very much and will not allow me to trade him for the first person I meet, although for me this person is very important. I'm old now, but I want to take risks. Maybe I'm wrong and Boris has other intentions. Then can I go back to my husband? Will he forgive me for my stupidity? ?



From the editorial office For some reason, I remember a scene from the movie Bridget Jones Diaries, a wonderful film, by the way. So Bridget's mom had a spark with a TV presenter, and she tried to start her life over. And then it turned out that this guy was an arrogant narcissist. She realized she had made a huge mistake and had hurt her husband. She came back and asked him for forgiveness. It was evident that her husband longed for her and that they would be together for the rest of their lives. That's true love.



Perhaps Lilia Ivanovna is bored, it seems to her that you can live happily with a person from the past. But people from the past should be left in memory, in thoughts, but not in the heart. They won’t be able to light a spark and will never take care of you if they haven’t done it before.