Trust in the family is the key to a comfortable relationship. If you come home with constant suspicion and hostility, you will never be able to
relax and rest properly. Of course, this will eventually lead to various mental problems and a breakdown in relations with relatives.
Trust in the family Many have difficulties with trust. They usually do not arise from scratch, but are related to previous experiences. For example, a woman who is deceived once will always be suspicious of all men. And the one who cheated, even more so. But that must be fought.
You need to do this not so much for others as for yourself. Perpetual suspicion undermines our relationships with family and friends. They poison our lives and make us worry more often than we really need to. One should not blindly believe everyone, but some degree of relaxation must be present.
My friend Alexei once saw that his wife Elena constantly goes somewhere. It didn’t bother him at first, but it happened.
weekly. That wasn’t the only thing that bothered the young man. Deciding to find a warm pair of shoes that were usually packed in boxes on the top shelf of the cabinet, he discovered something curious.
In the box with Lena's shoes were several large bills. Lesha was surprised because her wife never said she had a stash. The next day, the money disappeared, and the wife again went unknown where. Alexei’s patience ran out, and he decided to follow his beloved woman.
The path of the wife ran through their yard straight to the house, which was located opposite. Lesha waited for Lena to enter the entrance and followed her. Hearing the door on the second floor slammed, he quickly rose and knocked demandingly. But he didn't open it.
wife-loverAnd some old lady.
It turned out that Lena once saw in the yard grandmother, who was going to the store. This case was not easy for her and compassionate wife Lesha volunteered to help her with shopping. Several times a week, Elena ran to the old woman and took her home.
heavy-bag and other necessary things.
From the editorial board, I thought this story was a good indicator that something is clearly wrong in the relationship. Why don’t people just talk about things that bother them? It’s much more productive than trying to find something that probably doesn’t exist.