Why do we lie that there is no female friendship?

They say that There is no female friendship.. But who used to think that? Only people who have been burned at least once. Any betrayal changes a person’s views. However, this is not a reason to cut everyone under one comb, depersonalizing such a bright concept.



Today we invite you to talk about the topic. true female friendship. The editors will share with you interesting observations of the English writer Clive Lewis, and I will tell you my personal story from life.

We came across a statement by Clive Lewis on the Internet and could not help sharing it with you. The writer talks about friendship in general, but so sublime and beautiful. I wonder if his words will resonate with our readers.

In ancient times, friendship was considered the most complete and happy of human ties. The world today lacks it. Of course, everyone agrees that in addition to family, a man needs friends. But the tone will show that this word is not meant by those about whom Cicero and Aristotle wrote. Friendship is entertainment for us, an almost unnecessary luxury. How did we get here?



We don’t value friendship because we don’t see it. And we do not see it because it is the least natural of all kinds of love, it does not involve instinct, it has very little or no biological necessity. It is almost not connected with nerves, it does not blush, do not pale, do not lose feelings. It connects personality with personality; once people become friends, they stand out from the herd.

Without love, none of us would have been born, without affection, without friendship, we can grow and live. Our species does not need it biologically. Society is even hostile to her. Notice how much her superiors dislike her. The director of the school, the commander of the regiment, the captain of the ship becomes uncomfortable when one of their subordinates is bound by a strong friendship.



This unnatural nature of friendship explains why it was so loved in the old days. The main, deepest thought of antiquity and the Middle Ages was the departure from the material world. Nature, feeling, and body were considered dangerous to the spirit, feared or abhorred.

Attachment and love all too clearly make us like animals. When you experience these feelings, you are breathtaking or burning in your chest. The bright, calm, intelligent world of freely chosen friendship separates us from nature. Friendship is the only kind of love that likens us to gods or angels.

I am a supporter of the opinion that real friendship really exists. Both female and male. And I can safely say that I have met people who have become my best friends. I want to share with you a story about one of these fateful acquaintances. And why fateful, read on.



When I was 14 years old, I had a dream about a girl. We went to school together, but we didn’t know each other. I only knew her name, so I decided to find her VK profile. For some reason, at that moment, I thought that if I wrote her about my dream, it would be very nice. Actually, it did!

I texted her, "Ira, hi." It sounds strange, but I dreamed about you today. Just a minute later she answered me and we started texting. And then we decided to meet. I was teaching her how to ride a bicycle, and she showed me how to weave lovely mouline fenecks.



This year our strong female friendship turns 10 years old! I don’t even need a few articles to describe how much has happened. We grew up together, laughed and cried together, experienced joy and sorrow.

And even if one day our paths diverge, I will never stop believing in female friendship. She, like any other relationship, is a job in which both people interact. No wonder there is a thought that you need to be able to be friends. But I would say it's important to learn.



They say that There is no female friendship.. But is it worth believing everything that is said in society? I'm sure you'll decide how to answer that question. In the meantime, I would really like you to share with us your story of true and true female friendship. I'll look forward to it!