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Living alone is not easy, especially if he or she doesn’t understand. The True Causes of Your Loneliness. Sad people who do not fully understand their needs worsen their lives day by day. They're bitter to look at. If you are such a person yourself or you have a close friend who does not find a place for herself, be sure to read the information below.

Single women often cannot come to their senses of helplessness and emptiness inside. They are always looking for someone and always finding the wrong ones. Instead of enjoying their life and all its charms, they run after men who use them, and certainly do not feel any warm feelings for unhappy young women.



Confused after another unsuccessful affair with a man who has trampled their self-esteem into the mud, the girls can not understand what they are doing with their lives. Why is it happening like this? Why do men just use and then quit?



Maybe it's low self-esteem? Or maybe these women are looking too zealously, completely forgetting about themselves loved ones. They do everything in their lives to get a man who is not really interested in them. Watching your appearance is great, but when the main motivation is not self-love, and desire to please someone... This strategy is bad because it works too situationally.

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As soon as the desired man disappears somewhere, the young lady immediately abandons everything and drowns in depression. She is no longer interested in figure, self-development and other trifles of life. She lost her. Your main motivation, And with it the desire to enjoy life and all its various spheres. This often happens to people for whom love is everything. That is why you should not put love and a loved one on a pedestal.



What to say to yourself when you feel lonely and empty

1. Being with a person is not necessary to satisfy your lack of security, communication and attention.
2. You don’t need to find a partner just to have someone around. Enjoy your freedom and develop, and you will find a partner.
   
   
   
   
3. Stop limiting yourself to love relationships. That love is the most important thing in life is an illusion.
4. Most likely, your feeling of loneliness is a collection of various unmet needs. Understand what you really need and how it can be satisfied without a regular partner.
5. Be with someone who is genuinely interested in connecting with someone like you, not just fulfilling your base needs.
   
   
   
   
6. Not having a stable relationship is normal. Don’t confuse social pressure with your true desires and needs.

Being happy in solitude is possible. Moreover, if a person does not know how to be happy alone with himself, he will also be unhappy in a relationship. To begin with, you need to acquire harmony within yourself, realizing and working through your problems, and only then you can throw yourself into a relationship. However, believe me, your beliefs about relationships and their need can change dramatically after working on yourself.