Why does a husband slap in front of strangers, and at home turns into a completely different person?

An exemplary husband can be a completely different person when he goes outside his house. Why is this happening? Nina shared her story. She has a wonderful husband and all her friends are jealous of her. But the woman is deeply unhappy, she believes that her husband does not love her.



“Misha comes to the aid of all who ask. He easily drives acquaintances by car, takes them to the airport or home. He is not always on the way, but Misha never refuses friends. Always lends money: he is not sorry, because he earns well. Michail might stick around after work with a colleague to fix her computer or come to help with repairs. But at home, my husband is very different.



Exemplary husband Family for Misha in second place. No one can think about it, Misha’s neighbors adore it. He opens doors to women in the entrance, helps grandmothers carry bags to the apartment. Misha often goes to the bar with friends and often pays for the whole company. All the relatives worship my husband too, saying that I was very lucky with him.



For a long time I thought my lover was perfect. It’s been 10 years and I’m seriously considering divorce. Misha remained kind and friendly only for relatives and friends. At home he sits in the evening at the computer, and on weekends digs in the garage.



Generous with friends, Misha allocates little money for family needs. He says there are people who need financial support more than his wife and son. In our apartment, I make repairs myself, because Michael is busy helping those in need, and comes tired and not in the mood to glue the wallpaper.



When you need to drive a nail to hang a hanger, or bring heavy furniture into the house, Misha is not there. He doesn’t hear simple requests and my father helps me. Recently, I asked my husband to pick me up at the store to deliver heavy grocery bags, so he said he should take a colleague to the airport. I had to take a taxi.



I am tired of this marriage and I do not plan to continue suffering for a small child. I want a divorce, but I'm afraid everyone will judge me. My mom thinks I'm exaggerating and that Misha and I are actually doing well. But we're not even talking to him right now. We say hello in the morning and in the evening, we don’t even have breakfast together.



It is clear that Michael likes all relatives and acquaintances. He is always ready to help his friends and family. He can borrow money, give a ride home or give advice. At home, he does not have the strength to support his family. The wife should talk to her husband before filing for divorce and tell her how she feels. If your husband doesn’t change, there’s nothing to regret. What do you think?