Why women pamper modern men, and then shed bitter tears

Why don't men appreciate everything women do for them? Since childhood, girls are taught to cook, wash, clean and be compliant. And then they say that only then will they get married. In reality, the neglect of the beloved man suggests otherwise. Women, Who devote their time to the home and upbringing of childrenThey become unattractive to their partners. Why is this happening?



There is a concept of a “comfortable woman”. This is what we have been taught since childhood. Parents say that you need to be beautiful and well-groomed, that you need to be compliant and never contradict a man. The meaning of a woman’s life is to marry and serve her husband. If a woman does not have all these qualities, she's unworthy of love. The attitude of a beloved man will be respectful if a woman learns to respect herself.



Naively believing that indulging her man in everything, a woman will be loved and happy, she condemns herself to voluntary slavery. Because society makes women feel guilty. Woman is the root of all evil. She is guilty that she could not get married, she is reproached, if her husband cheated on her, then she could not satisfy him. The woman is to blame for the fact that children do not do well in school and so on and so forth.



What about the man? Practice shows that not everyone fulfills their function as a producer. Then why do women want to marry at all costs, even if not to the most decent male? It is simple: women need love and care. And even if they don't get it from a serious relationship, They feel protected from stereotypes and stigma..



Why should a man strain and hold on to a woman when she is already presenting her soul to him on a platter? Here the husband cheats for years and still comes home, because his wife cooks deliciously, washes his clothes and regrets when something happened at work. My husband is lying on the couch after work and resting. My wife comes home from work and cooks dinner. And then the woman teaches lessons with the child. She made her own choice and became very comfortable. As long as a woman tolerates the consumer attitude of her beloved man, she will not break the vicious circle. We must understand that until she herself changes, the attitude towards her will not change either. And if you know you're being abused, break that relationship.



If you think that a man uses you, does not help around the house, does not raise children and generally looks to the left, stop being comfortable. We create all the conditions so that men do not have to strain. It is time to stop serving men and start self-development.



Even if you really want a great and pure love, it should not be the goal of your whole life. Understand that men are attracted not by submissive sheep, but by daring ladies who do not even look in their direction. Know your price, please yourself and your needs first. Do what you like and forget about stereotypes, please.



Be a woman with a complex character, do not try to deserve love, you deserve it from the moment you were born. Follow your dreams and ignore those who envy you. A woman who has shiny eyes, a woman who lives to the fullest and enjoys every moment, will lay down mountains of fans at her feet. And the one who does not respect himself and tries to please his beloved, and loses it. Agreed?