Why you should stop talking to a manipulator Bashny.Net

Taking responsibility for your own life is a necessary quality of every adult. However, there are also those who like to shift responsibility to others and experience more. pity To myself.

And today's edition. "Site" It will tell you by what signs you can recognize a person who likes to try on the role of the victim and skillfully manipulates others. Don’t try to help you so you don’t get trapped.



A person who loves to feel sorry for himself is always sure that the people around him are cold and cruel, and he is too weak to stand up for himself. I want to react to that position. There is a desire to convince a person of the opposite. But help only convinces the “victim” of his rightness.



Complaints about life allow you to get the support of others, then use them in their manipulative schemes. One wrong action or even a word will give the sufferer a reason to be offended, thereby attracting people’s attention and making them listen to new complaints about life.



It is enough to spend a little time with such a person to feel like a lemon. And in addition to emotional support, they require both physical and material assistance, increasingly shifting their responsibilities to others. Such relationships are exhausting.



Being sure of his own helplessness, the sufferer does not try to change anything, just sits and waits for help. Any attempts to direct him to the right path are perceived as bayonets. And the inability to admit mistakes and excessive emotionality often ruin relationships with loved ones.



With no reliability, toxic You can’t trust anyone 100%. Uncertainty causes him to constantly compare himself with others, which only aggravates the condition. Next to such a special it is difficult to remain confident and cheerful.

Constant concentration on their complaints and problems does not allow a person to pay attention to all the good that happens to them. In extreme cases, any pleasant incidents are written off as luck.



People with this mentality are always ready to defend their strange worldview, but are not able to take responsibility for their lives. They are very good at putting their problems on others. Very convenient! Is it worth wasting your time and nerves on these people? The answer is obvious, but in life we often act contrary to common sense.