Why men pamper capricious beggars and shower them with gifts

Often I see that a cranky woman gets much more than her independent friend. Why is this happening? Aren't men supposed to? More enjoy calm and self-sufficient natures? Let’s try to solve this mystery together today.

Keeping the balance between “independent and independent” and “vulnerable capricious” is insanely difficult. But I am sure that this balance is the secret of a long and happy relationship in which both a man and a woman will be comfortable. How do you keep that balance? You need to be able to distinguish between situations in which you need to change your role.



I'm sure that In a sense, relationships are a scene.And love is a beautiful performance on it. You need to be able to perform your role well, without losing a touch of sincerity and believing in what you are doing. And you don't have to convert. all my life in theaterBecause it won't do anything good. Everything belongs.



So, what is the main problem of women who always try to behave independently? I think there are actually two problems:

  1. The first is that a man does not have the opportunity to be the hero and prince who saves his princess. The need to feel like a “rescuer” is present in one way or another in all men.



    Sometimes this measure is so great that a man will consciously choose the most problematic and unhappy partner who always needs help. Such men usually have suitable “victims”. These girls will be manipulated, for example. Perpetual problems with relatives or former.

  2. The second problem is that strong women often forget about the most pressing things in a relationship. Of course, I mean communication. Words through your mouth.



    These ladies are really the same. Want care, gifts and attention. But they are afraid to talk about it. It is difficult for a man to know what they want from him. As a result, the woman is tired of the lack of necessary things, and she leaves. And the man remains confused... He doesn't know what he did wrong.





But I don’t want to talk directly either. No woman will be pleased. brand. That's the role of the capricious. Which is actually strong and independent, but can sometimes play the role of the same princess on a pea, which does not like, and it is not suitable.



Wise men fast They recognize all these roles and will gladly play along.Getting pleasure from this game. It is important not to overdo it and play only when it is really in place. Don't forget, who really is in chargeGet the most out of life and relationships.