Loved man changed, and for some reason the woman is to blame

Loved man changedAnd it's a woman who has to puff out. It is a standard story that does not even need to be explained. Here usually sympathize with the men, they say, now does not know what to do: divorce or still keep the family? If you can, of course. There is suffering, and so on and so forth.



The man is really too sensitive now. It can be quite charging, they say, if I went to cheat, then only my wife is to blame for this. Like, she didn't appreciate me, didn't understand, I did the right thing. How can I tell you? Editorial "Site" There are a few arguments against such beliefs. Come on, try to deny it!

It's easy to say goodbye to a girl you're on a second or third date with. You didn't like it. Goodbye. But here different story. Both in grief and in joy, remember? You and your lover are not a day or two. A year, three, ten. Once upon a time, it was you who decided that you would love her, care for her and worry about her future in every way possible.



How many things have you two done for your family, for your home, for the children you have. Of course, things have happened. And whims, and stupidity, and tears with nerves. You didn't always understand her, and she didn't always behave properly. After all, we are human, we have emotions. But telepaths, strangely enough, do not exist.

So here's the question. Why is she the only one to blame for your betrayal? You take the responsibility to make her happy (or not?), you have a mutual relationship. So why? burden Is it on her? I think you think you're the head of the family, the head of the family, and you found a reason to run away from the problem because her whims became a problem for you?



In our opinion, this responsibility is at least mutual. And if you dig deeper, it's the man's fault. Because declaring his primacy and postulating ideals, he must fully conform to them. And he left, especially through treason, so he failed. Promised to care, love, and didn't.



It is clear that no one is forcing anyone to do anything like this is not necessary. Divorce, in fact, is also a way out, an attempt to achieve the stated result. Who knows, maybe, next-wife Will it be less capricious? But to blame the divorce only on the former, it seems to us absolute nonsense.

The problem may also be that a normal dialogue has not been built up over the years. My wife is holding something in her mind. Something husband. And sometimes you just need to talk, open up, share your experiences. If you still suffer from these conversations, then you need to honestly disperse. You don't have to hide behind cheating.



A man should honestly tell himself that it all depends on me, this is my problem! But can you just admit your mistake? Write in the comments, have you faced such a situation and was it possible to solve the problem? However, after the betrayal to find a compromise is unlikely to be easy.



Loved man changedAnd a woman is worried about it. He's like goose water! I don’t like it, I’ll find another one. Is that what this attitude is? Read our article on how to act wisely if you were cheated: leave or stay? As for our editorial board, stay with us for nothing!