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What to do if your husband is a wolf in sheep’s clothing
In relationships, it is not easy to soberly look at the world. And when one partner pretends, the other sometimes takes a long time to notice. Sometimes a woman to understand the real maleYou need to live with him for more than a year.
And today's edition. "Site" Can we understand the real intentions of the spouse before marriage? After all, if the truth is revealed only after years, it will not be easy to fix everything.
Intentions of the man "We got married a year ago." Sergey worked in my father’s firm, was doing well and soon became his right-hand man. In order to prepare a worthy successor, the father decided to introduce us to marry soon, Nastya says.
“I really liked Sergei. He was honest, intelligent, and most importantly, sweet and caring. We met for 3 months and then we got married. Father was pleased. He gave us a house and a car, and made Sergey the director of one of his businesses. Nothing foreshadowed trouble ...”
“A month ago we celebrated my husband’s birthday. Sergey was sitting on the street talking with friends. The window was open, and I happened to hear words that made the earth go out from under my feet.
“That’s it, guys, I told you it was mine.” And with her will be mine and her father’s money. He was clearly pleased with himself and boasted to his comrades. I just didn’t know what was going on, the woman said.
“When I finally went out to them, they fell silent. But I did not quarrel, but only said goodbye to everyone and went to bed under the pretext of fatigue. Since then, my cozy world has collapsed. I don’t want to see my husband, but I don’t know what to do next. Especially since I am already expecting a child.”
“Families have nothing to advise. I can't explain it to my father. I'm afraid to tell my mother. I'm sure they won't understand me or even believe everything. Especially since I have no record of the conversation or any other evidence.”
It was painful that his friends, with whom I seemed to have a good relationship, laughed behind my back and knew that Sergey was cheating on me. Was it because of my father’s money?
“Maybe we should talk to our husband and get divorced on mutually acceptable terms? I'm willing to pay him to disappear from my life. And I can raise a child myself, the deceived wife reflects.
Letting someone (even your parents) choose your life partner is probably a bad idea. Therefore, there is a direct fault of Nastya’s father, because he gave her such an “honest and intelligent” husband. Therefore, a woman blames herself for everything and is afraid of frank conversation with loved ones.
Marriage made for money has no future. And the birth of a child will not be able to keep the young parents together after the aforementioned revelations. Should a woman then torture herself and try to postpone the collapse of such a family with all her might?
And today's edition. "Site" Can we understand the real intentions of the spouse before marriage? After all, if the truth is revealed only after years, it will not be easy to fix everything.
Intentions of the man "We got married a year ago." Sergey worked in my father’s firm, was doing well and soon became his right-hand man. In order to prepare a worthy successor, the father decided to introduce us to marry soon, Nastya says.
“I really liked Sergei. He was honest, intelligent, and most importantly, sweet and caring. We met for 3 months and then we got married. Father was pleased. He gave us a house and a car, and made Sergey the director of one of his businesses. Nothing foreshadowed trouble ...”
“A month ago we celebrated my husband’s birthday. Sergey was sitting on the street talking with friends. The window was open, and I happened to hear words that made the earth go out from under my feet.
“That’s it, guys, I told you it was mine.” And with her will be mine and her father’s money. He was clearly pleased with himself and boasted to his comrades. I just didn’t know what was going on, the woman said.
“When I finally went out to them, they fell silent. But I did not quarrel, but only said goodbye to everyone and went to bed under the pretext of fatigue. Since then, my cozy world has collapsed. I don’t want to see my husband, but I don’t know what to do next. Especially since I am already expecting a child.”
“Families have nothing to advise. I can't explain it to my father. I'm afraid to tell my mother. I'm sure they won't understand me or even believe everything. Especially since I have no record of the conversation or any other evidence.”
It was painful that his friends, with whom I seemed to have a good relationship, laughed behind my back and knew that Sergey was cheating on me. Was it because of my father’s money?
“Maybe we should talk to our husband and get divorced on mutually acceptable terms? I'm willing to pay him to disappear from my life. And I can raise a child myself, the deceived wife reflects.
Letting someone (even your parents) choose your life partner is probably a bad idea. Therefore, there is a direct fault of Nastya’s father, because he gave her such an “honest and intelligent” husband. Therefore, a woman blames herself for everything and is afraid of frank conversation with loved ones.
Marriage made for money has no future. And the birth of a child will not be able to keep the young parents together after the aforementioned revelations. Should a woman then torture herself and try to postpone the collapse of such a family with all her might?
