Why you should not even try to find your soulmate

Everyone will find something for themselves in Sadhguru advice. Unhappy lovers or people who desperately want to find a soul mate are no exception. Today, let’s look at the guru’s thoughts on relationships and the mythical “ideal person” that everyone wants to find. In order not to experience bitter disappointment in people, try to carefully read the advice of Sadhguru.

People often exaggerate the importance of romance and passionate love. Trying to find their soul mate, they primarily pay attention to these feelings. Few people think about the fact that even finding a good person, you still need to have a relationship. work hard. It is very rare that people are perfect for each other, but even in this case, avoiding conflicts and problems will be very short.



Why is this happening? First, we all tend to change throughout our lives. Change is not always compared to relationships. Sometimes people just grow up and their views of the world are transformed. You have to be prepared for the fact that your loved one will be completely different in 10 years, and that’s perfectly normal. As well as the fact that at the very beginning of a relationship, people behave differently than in ordinary life.



Sadhguru believes that finding the right half is impossible by definition. People who suffer from such idealism often think quite remotely from reality. This view is formed through romantic series, films and books. They often describe completely unrealistic relationships. If you take these sources too seriously, that is the kind of relationship you will be looking for.



And, of course, sooner or later you will be disappointed in people, because they will not correspond to your fantasies. Sadhguru suggests that you first look at yourself and evaluate yourself. You have it, too. setback and all sorts of nonsense. Same with other people. You just need to find someone who will be happy with it.

It is important to understand that ideal people do not exist. But finding a person whose flaws will not abhor your vision of the world is not so difficult. We must also remember that all our relationships are based on different needs. But they're all completely different. How do you know if you are with the right person? Such a person will be able and willing to meet your needs, and you - his.



For example, you have a very high need for support or communication. You need a person who loves to communicate and will be a reliable companion in life. Not everyone can satisfy such requests, even sincerely loving. And that's perfectly normal. The main thing is not to deceive yourself, trying to fantasize the right qualities in someone who does not have them.



Sadhguru’s other advice is that only the self-discovered person has the widest choice. Put your mind, appearance and other areas in life in order. A truly beautiful person is beautiful in everything: in career, family, relationships. Don’t try to change everything when you need to. work on. Then you can attract someone you feel good with.



And, of course, do not make the mistake that there is only one right person for you. That's not true at all! There are many wonderful people in the world. And just because you don’t have a relationship with one of them doesn’t mean you’ve lost your only chance at happiness.