How to understand that it is time to leave a man

An infantile man is a woe to any woman. However, it is not always possible to understand the degree of this infantility at the very beginning of a relationship, and then it is too late to change something. However, Natalia's story shows that there are pleasant exceptions to this rule.

Infantile man Natalia lived in marriage for 35 years and only now seems to have finally woken up. The children had grown up, the grandchildren had already gone, and she was still a kind of free servant for her husband Anatoly. She cleaned, washed, and even worked full-time until she was 55.



In 35 years of marriage, she never felt truly happy. So that in the morning the birds sing in the shower. But the endless nagging was enough. Everything was wrong with him. Why did it seem normal to her before? It never occurred to her that she could live differently.



She listened to her whole family life. nagging She was a tear vest for him. But it only worked one way. He did not want to hear about her sorrows, because they were not, in his words, something important worth his precious attention.

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She had been thinking about leaving for a long time. But she was afraid, and all her married friends feared her terrible consequences. And two months ago, Natasha couldn’t stand it, packed her things and moved into her son’s empty apartment. And the next day. divorced.



Natalia listened to herself, waiting for the inner pain. This is what her friends expected her to feel. But she didn’t feel anything like that. Instead, her soul was filled with a tremendous sense of freedom. Finally, she could live only for herself, without the remorse and endless reproaches of her husband. Sadly, she only managed to do so at the age of 60.



Choosing a partner and feeling yourself The mistake of Natasha can make any of us. Infantility is not just for men, but for many women, too. Their husbands suffer no less than Natalia, although female infantility is manifested a little differently. Such women are completely obsessed with themselves, often suffer from alcoholism and pay little attention to a loving person nearby, you can not expect gratitude from them.



Do not rush to choose a partner for life. Study human nature carefully and make sure you accept this nature. Some people just don’t agree and there’s nothing wrong with that. It is better to feel the suffering of parting with the wrong person, which will last a maximum of six months, than to suffer all your life. Few things can be worse than being 70 years old when you realize you’ve spent your life on something. ungrateful infantile.