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How long does it take to realize that a husband without a job who refuses to help with the household does not deserve support? How do you make the righteous realize their wrongness? It is this difficult question that you will find the answer in our history today.

Tired Lena, as usual, returned from work, typing on the way to the store full packages of products. Today I had to take a change of partner in the shop, so she also stayed late. There was no strength even to eat dinner, nothing else to do with its preparation.



Crossing the threshold of the apartment, the girl caught the usual picture. There was a mountain of unwashed dishes in the kitchen, and on the couch watching TV, sat an unflappable husband waiting for him to be fed and put to bed. Instead of meeting his wife and picking up heavy bags, the husband only impatiently shouted, "Lenka, what took you so long?" Come on, I'm gonna starve!



The decision came at lightning speed. Lena packed up and went to sleep with her sister without saying a word. The next morning, the girl never came home. And even after two days of news from Lena her husband did not wait. However, he did not care much about it. As it turned out, he can warm up the soup and wash the bowl with a spoon himself whenever he wants.



For several months, Andrei has been sitting without a job, completely forgetting about household duties. So Lena has to carry everything on herself. She fills an empty refrigerator, cleans the house, and pays utility bills herself.



Lena used to think things would work out on their own. Like, the husband just needs to rest, gather strength. Everyone has a hard time... But that time, when she returned home, she suddenly realized that change can no longer be expected.



And without waiting for a call from her husband while living with her sister, Lena began to think about how she would go on. To continue to pretend that such conditions of life together suit her, I did not want at all. And to hope that after six months Andrey suddenly changed and began to care for the well-being of the family, as she did before.

In the end, the story ended rather prosaically - with divorce and sighs of regret that everything turned out so stupidly.



After some time, Andrew, of course, tried to regain the trust and love of his ex-wife. But by the time he came to his senses, Lena did not want to hear about him anymore.

Often, trying to support a loved one, we forget about our desires and needs. And the longer we have to put our own interests on the back burner to please another person, the more angry we are with the person we wanted to help. As today’s story shows, this does not lead to anything good. So maybe you shouldn't mindlessly sacrifice your own well-being for your loved ones, what do you say?