What happens when there is a mistress in the family and what is the use of it? Bashny.Net

Love is immaculate and eternal. Yes, when you watch a romantic movie or read the same book. It's never like that in life. Because life itself is divided into periods. Let them be a little dark, a little light. It happens that the collapse occurs by itself. Routine, monotonous, everyday. Then there might be lover. But is that so bad?



We have an editorial. "Site" It caught my eye an interesting story. In fact, it is banal – there are actually many such stories, just not everyone knows how to benefit from it. So we decided to figure out if this is the end of a family relationship, when another young lady suddenly appears on the horizon and why can this even happen?

Every person, no matter how twisted, but a little selfish. As long as you are on your own, life is much easier, because of all the obligations only those that you have set for yourself. When you are in a relationship, you do not belong to yourself. You think everything's okay, but no. You seem to be in control, but.



And now our story. They got married probably seven years ago. She is more calm, beautiful, thoroughbred. He is a foreigner who has been carried by the winds of life into our homeland. For the first four years, they had tendernessLove, all this chemistry. But gradually chemistry ceased to be stormy, love grew into friendship, only tenderness remained.

It wasn’t a quick process, it happened gradually. Foreign handsome gave the first signs of excitement, when suddenly began to lay for the collar more than usual. No, she didn’t care that he was flirting with other ladies—how could you love anyone other than her?—but that alerted her.



More. The man is not poor, he did not drink at stalls, but he began to use much more and more often. Active by nature, could suddenly be in Paris, where he flew with a friend on a private plane because he had to “finish the conversation.” He said he'd be out there for a few days.

She turned to a psychologist for help. At first, she was worried about her career, but the further she went, the more she poured out her soul about her husband. Like trying to make excuses. He never stopped fading. Which plunged him into oppressionI couldn't understand. He did not seek consultation and ruled out such an opportunity.



And now, at some point, this correspondence arose with a young lush-breasted beast. At the reception at the psychologist, she just threw and tore, cursing the hated foreign husband with the latest words. At the same time skilled psychologist I saw the potential in that situation -- there it is, the light at the end of the tunnel.

Obviously, he was trying to reach out to his wife. I tried to show that something strange was happening. That he needed help, but nothing could make her act. Until a mistress suddenly appeared on the horizon. The fear of losing her husband made her act.



Then there was a series of conversations in which he admitted that he was low on her, that yes, there was correspondence, several meetings, but nothing serious. But there was still tenderness between them. He finally agreed to go to a therapist's counseling session to sort himself out - that remains to be done.

So far, we can say that this is what saved their marriage. She saved a foreigner who somehow decided to fight his own depression. So thank you, young burly beast, made a rustle on the frozen relationship. So who knows what it would be like?



We’re not saying it should be a cure for all relationships, but therapeutic Obviously. It is good that a competent psychologist was able to see these pitfalls, find the right words to explain to the woman - her husband is confused, he needs help.

Is it worth reconsidering your attitude to your beloved person, to whom Alexander Petrovich Zapcha suddenly sent a message in the evening “I miss” and attached a photo of a female body, from which you can blush? Be sure to write about it in the comments. Have you ever faced such a situation?



Family lover For someone it can be a good incentive, and for someone a complete collapse of a relationship. It depends on how your eyes see the situation. Just in case, read this article on whether to take back an unfaithful husband if his new passion demands to take him back. Thank you for staying with us!