Lost virtue women that don't need to earn, to acquire or train Bashny.Net

The world and men will treat us exactly as much as we love and respect ourselves.

Respect cannot be demand. Having the dignity of women, a woman receives respect automatically.

Dignity is the awareness of his absolute feminine values. It is not necessary to earn, to gain or to train. It is in the us initially.

Not to be confused with self-esteem and confidence. Self confidence and self esteem depend on successes or failures in our lives. And dignity – it is always.

Dignity is the main Shrine of the women. And it is based on three pillars:

• respect for yourself,
• respect for others,
• 100% responsibility for their actions and their lives.

 

Self-respect implies a high moral character, loyalty to himself and his principles, respect for your body, soul and space. The woman does not allow himself to pollute your body and your inner world with cigarettes, alcohol, hate, anger, revenge. It also means defining the boundaries of others, they can't break. It is his loyalty and the opportunity to be themselves.





 

Respect for others also implies that you respect their body, mind and space, and do not violate their boundaries.

Responsibility implies that you realize that everything that happens in your life is yours and your thoughts. You do not blame anyone, do not shift responsibility for their deeds and actions and not think that someone not you is responsible for your happiness. It can only afford a grown woman.

 

We lose our dignity:

 

— when we feel flawed without a man. Hence all the troubles, and the loss of his dignity, too, for this reason. Woman trying to meet someone, to enter into any relationship just not to be alone. And in this moment she forgets about her female dignity, tolerate, forgive what cannot be forgiven is imposed.

- run after a man, check, read his SMS. So, we don't believe in yourself, in your feminine power, in its singularity and necessity. Remember, men by nature are hunters, and when we change places with them, you become not interesting to them.

— when married, flirting with other men.

— behave in a familiar, sitting in a cheeky pose, drink.

— allow yourself to insult a man to swear.

— humiliate a man, believe that men are worthless creatures and only want for having children.

— lie to her husband and hiding money from him. If you don't trust that man, what you doing with him?

— shout, swear, fight, to prove his innocence. Irresistible women are willing to get rid of the need to always be "right". M. Forleo.

— scurrying around, trying to curry favor, to earn the love.

— zavidum. A woman is jealous when she feels that she lacks something. At this point, she no longer felt as something precious and perfect, moving away from yourself. Instead of fixing your gaze in the lives of others, we are wasting energy and not living life.

— gossiping. We also destroy its integrity, value and dignity.

— consider other women as rivals and rival in love.

- go easy on sexual relations. A woman that respects herself, appreciates her body. She understands that the body is not a currency and not a way to keep men. In fact, we all understand that our body is a treasure, is the most precious thing we have. And often cast him as the heavy artillery, to the feet of the men to hold it. Your body we want to impress him, to lure him to their network, and sometimes work gifts and a restaurant. But the body is not a bargaining chip, is the temple of the soul. And remember, for men, unfortunately, it's not a treasure, but only pleasure. Start to respect your body, then the man will start to respect him.

— lying in order to shield yourself. Lying to children because they don't know how to defend themselves, and are unable to take responsibility for their actions.



— smoke. If you smoke, you need to resolve this issue. It is always talking about, and therefore about the psychological problems. Even if a man and don't mind that you smoke, anyway, he intuitively feels that you have a problem. He needs a healthy woman, both physically and mentally.

— do not do a body appearance. Many believe that the soul is higher than body, but where is the soul without a body? Love of self begins with careful and conscious relationship to your body. This healthy eating and drinking regime. Every woman can have a good figure. And not to look 40 to 50, fortunately, there are so many possibilities. And it's not the amount of cosmetic procedures and smeared creams and masks, and daily respect for themselves and their health. In relation to himself as a flower, we definitely need to take care that it bloomed, but not wilted.

— "fighting" for your happiness, go to the head, believe that we must win their own happiness, to beat somebody, to steal someone else's husband to nail someone to the wall and forced to marry. The woman, confident in her values, never will not go.

— not sleeping at home. Until a woman was married, she should stay the night at home in his bed. You can meet, to happen on the territory of men, but always return home. How would you late or delayed, and as though you would like to stay. A man should at once feel your boundaries, and respect you.

- kissing in public. I often see on the subway is just a couple on the escalator and makes it so that it is time for them to start to undress. Passionate kissing is still an intimate process, it is unlikely it needs to happen in the eyes of others. Perhaps the young man and the hormones, but the woman does not have to be available always and everywhere. The dignity of women suggests beautiful modesty and restraint.

— washed and ironed man, if not married. It makes the wife or the housekeeper. You – not the one and not the other, remember this. Start doing it – the wife will never be, and to treat the man you will soon begin as to the housekeeper, he will just use. You can say that you are worth nothing, and man it is nice. Yes, he was pleased, however, if you do not respect yourself. Is it any wonder that a man such a woman then, too, ceases to respect.

— live a civil marriage. I will write about it separate article.

— to bear children out of wedlock. I understand that the responsibility for this lies with both, but if a man has not made the proposal, it is assumed that the children he does not want. So, the possible consequences should think a woman, if she is on an intimate relationship before marriage. There is something unworthy, to put the man before the fact that, to expect from men, what he decides. Today many boundaries are erased, today you can do whatever you want, but the dignity of a woman it does not add. And that feels any woman caught in such a situation.

— does not add to women's dignity and a photo posted on the Internet in a swimsuit or in underwear. I always want to ask one question: Why? What do you mean? You have a beautiful figure? You are not to know about it the most, you want someone to prove something or to call someone's envy? In such pictures, lies the immaturity and a huge lack of confidence. Do not post half naked photos online. If you want to share with the world its beauty, the dress will fit better and all in any case, you will see your beautiful figure.

Today it is considered fashionable to lay out Nude pregnant bellies. These pictures are very beautiful and lovely, but still for the family album. The woman, self-confident, do not need to show any part of my body, they're exclusive to the eye, and not for everyone.

— go to the second role in the relationship, enter into a relationship with a married man. A woman with dignity, self-respect and can afford to be unique and unique. In this matter she will never compromise. Sometimes simply the knowledge that it is beneath your dignity to never do that. Even if the man will sing to you that "there" he's worse than ever, but the divorce he's not there yet. And the question of hygiene? What dignity can there be? He sleeps with his wife, and then with you. Mistresses rarely become wives, they give birth, the wife is already there.

— if the man decided to leave the family, this is possible in life. However, before you go into a relationship with him, he needs to get a divorce. No need to settle for less. When you hang for what you can get, you broadcast to the world that you are not worthy of a real relationship.

— if the relationship becomes unbearable, if you have already done much to change them, but nothing changes, you have to get out of them. This applies to alcoholism. Some women are so addicted to rescuing alcoholics, the loss of not only himself but also his life. When the man defiantly walking and changes, stresses with all my respect to that report he did not intend, and the woman continues, like a dog running after him and faithfully look into the eyes, in this case, too, want closure and to end his own humiliation and sacrifice.





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Sexologist Alexander Poleev I was always amazed at how women believe men

 

A woman of dignity is not a blue stocking, which only consists of principles and prohibitions.

Dignity requires the ability to rejoice, to laugh, to cry, to admire, to love, to be natural. With dignity to accept gifts and compliments, to believe in their dreams, to have desires, Hobbies and interests. As well as the ability to enjoy himself and life.published

 

Author: Tatiana Dzuceva

 



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