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Where is the Achilles heel of an aging woman
Women's dignity is an awareness of their true and absolute valueIt doesn’t have to be earned or trained. Our editor on the expanses of the domestic Internet found a long-walking article, the author of which is a famous blogger Alexander Biryukov.
The material, let’s say at once, is ambiguous, it caused a lot of discussion. After all, not only the female half of our team was affected by some statements and conclusions of Mr. Biryukov.
Everything in order. Editorial "Site" I am sure that each fact can be viewed from different angles. As the sages say, The truth is somewhere in the middle.. So let's look wider!
Referring to a certain NightWolf, A. Biryukov gives his explanations. He states that “the female body develops before the age of 18, and then the aging process starts” and, quote, “from 27 to 30 years of age, the subjective attractiveness of women among men is very low compared to 18 years of age.” Ten times lower”. If you can still agree with the first statement from a physiological point of view, then he clearly overdosed about “one in ten below”.
Look at the majority of women who have reached the age of thirty. Mostly these are well-groomed and wise women with life experience. They know themselves, men and life, after all. Yes, they have to work on their attractiveness, but they usually have a win-win option.
The happiness of a woman who does not have a man Women’s happiness a priori is impossible if there is no reliable male shoulder nearby.We consider them old and also untrue. Representatives of the fair sex can realize themselves anywhere and in any way, not only in a relationship with a man. There are plenty of examples.
Biryukov, who calls himself a psychologist, writes that for female attractiveness, “...the age of 18 years is exactly the same, 23-25 years is the age of the overstay, and 27-30 years is the age of the final old maid.” You can also close your eyes to the cynical truth: “The shelf life of women is shorter than that of men.”. But here we fundamentally disagree, as with his peremptory “woman will never be happy without man.” At the same time, the blogger does not talk so much about spiritual aspects as focuses on more mundane things.
Well, reputable psychologists agree that A woman in her 30s is only flourishing.. She feels her body much better than a young girl, knows what she wants, and already handles her partner skillfully. And even if he chooses for some reason to remain alone, at any time he can go to the adult goods store, and she will be happy. We're a little ironic, but we hope the point is clear.
A worthy partner is the prerogative of only young people? The blogger, without noticing it, devalues not only the beautiful sex, but also the stronger sex. Reflecting on the quality of suitors in an elderly girl (yes, because “the popularity of women decreases with a decrease in the presentation”), the author states: “Obviously, the most successful men in women break off.”
That is, in his opinion, a self-respecting man should look only at 18-year-olds, but not at the elders. Really, why pay attention to personalityIf you have to look into the eyes of your weakness. It seems that somewhere here is the root of this male position.
Healthy Self-Esteem: Dotting the “i” We also decided, following the example of Alexander Biryukov, to dot all the "i". First, let this be our response to the blogger in defense of the women he has abused. Secondly, Achilles heel Experienced women are not in age, but in such prejudices and stereotypes. Happiness does not depend on having a partner nearby, but it depends on self-esteem. Thirdly, in what and how a person writes, the degree of his psychological maturity is visible.
You have to draw conclusions, dear readers. Be sure to share your opinion on today’s topic! We're very interested. We are waiting for comments from men and women of different ages.
The material, let’s say at once, is ambiguous, it caused a lot of discussion. After all, not only the female half of our team was affected by some statements and conclusions of Mr. Biryukov.
Everything in order. Editorial "Site" I am sure that each fact can be viewed from different angles. As the sages say, The truth is somewhere in the middle.. So let's look wider!
Referring to a certain NightWolf, A. Biryukov gives his explanations. He states that “the female body develops before the age of 18, and then the aging process starts” and, quote, “from 27 to 30 years of age, the subjective attractiveness of women among men is very low compared to 18 years of age.” Ten times lower”. If you can still agree with the first statement from a physiological point of view, then he clearly overdosed about “one in ten below”.
Look at the majority of women who have reached the age of thirty. Mostly these are well-groomed and wise women with life experience. They know themselves, men and life, after all. Yes, they have to work on their attractiveness, but they usually have a win-win option.
The happiness of a woman who does not have a man Women’s happiness a priori is impossible if there is no reliable male shoulder nearby.We consider them old and also untrue. Representatives of the fair sex can realize themselves anywhere and in any way, not only in a relationship with a man. There are plenty of examples.
Biryukov, who calls himself a psychologist, writes that for female attractiveness, “...the age of 18 years is exactly the same, 23-25 years is the age of the overstay, and 27-30 years is the age of the final old maid.” You can also close your eyes to the cynical truth: “The shelf life of women is shorter than that of men.”. But here we fundamentally disagree, as with his peremptory “woman will never be happy without man.” At the same time, the blogger does not talk so much about spiritual aspects as focuses on more mundane things.
Well, reputable psychologists agree that A woman in her 30s is only flourishing.. She feels her body much better than a young girl, knows what she wants, and already handles her partner skillfully. And even if he chooses for some reason to remain alone, at any time he can go to the adult goods store, and she will be happy. We're a little ironic, but we hope the point is clear.
A worthy partner is the prerogative of only young people? The blogger, without noticing it, devalues not only the beautiful sex, but also the stronger sex. Reflecting on the quality of suitors in an elderly girl (yes, because “the popularity of women decreases with a decrease in the presentation”), the author states: “Obviously, the most successful men in women break off.”
That is, in his opinion, a self-respecting man should look only at 18-year-olds, but not at the elders. Really, why pay attention to personalityIf you have to look into the eyes of your weakness. It seems that somewhere here is the root of this male position.
Healthy Self-Esteem: Dotting the “i” We also decided, following the example of Alexander Biryukov, to dot all the "i". First, let this be our response to the blogger in defense of the women he has abused. Secondly, Achilles heel Experienced women are not in age, but in such prejudices and stereotypes. Happiness does not depend on having a partner nearby, but it depends on self-esteem. Thirdly, in what and how a person writes, the degree of his psychological maturity is visible.
You have to draw conclusions, dear readers. Be sure to share your opinion on today’s topic! We're very interested. We are waiting for comments from men and women of different ages.
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