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Man younger women—the pros and cons
According to the opinion, in marriage the man should be older than the woman or at least her age. However, in recent decades there was a fashion for unequal marriages in which the age difference is 7 years and more in the direction of the bride.
Such pairs are universally condemned. Around find the only possible explanation for this non-standard Union: young man – gigolo and looking for in a relationship exclusively material benefit. It should be noted that the stereotype that the husband should be older than his wife, did not come out of nowhere and has a Foundation in fact: marriage is typically concluded with the purpose of the birth and upbringing of children.
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A scene from the movie "My best lover»
When the woman is much older than his wife, and even more are already out of childbearing age, it would be difficult or impossible to fulfill their "natural" purpose. And yet we cannot say that such relationships are doomed, and the man sooner or later will leave the aging wife for a younger girl will be able to create a full family and have children. Of course, often such unions do break, but many couples save relationships for years to come.
What find young men in Mature women?It is not always wealth. Often the reason is quite different: an older Woman has already taken place, as a person, she is self-sufficient and smart, it is something to talk about. The young companion has a lot she has to learn. Besides, despite the "gentle" age, a man may be spiritually much older and do not find a common language with their "narrow-minded", from his point of view, peers.
Mature woman more diplomatic and tactful, to a greater extent prone to compromises, compared to the whimsical and selfish young girls. The older woman usually experienced, sensual, uninhibited in bed knows how to satisfy herself and deliver it to the partner. The flowering of female sexuality at the age of 30-40 years, so the most vivid, violent and unforgettable sex happens at different ages of couples in which the partner is much younger than his lady.
The young man may unconsciously look for in her replacement mother, if he for some reason has not developed a relationship with her. Finally, the partners can bind a sincere mutual love, which does not depend on age.
Mature women with young lover Union also has its advantages:All the same age to 30-40 years is already married or is completely unsuitable for love relationships or family life, as suffering from alcoholism, drug addiction or impotence. Only the younger man can build a happy and harmonious Union. Men live less than women, so, if the husband is older than wife, very early she will remain a widow.
The younger satellite is the best elixir of youth. To be in shape and externally fit to your partner, the woman turns to the services of cosmetologists, attend beauty salons, becomes taut and attractive. Mature men are more mundane and pragmatic, sometimes forget that women need to look after, give flowers, telling them compliments. Young people romance and capable of any "madness" in the name of his beloved. Young companion combines qualities of lover and child.
Some women want motherly care for your partner, and if it is satisfied that a Union of the type "mother-son" can be very durable and last for years to come. The abundance of rapid, intense, varied sex helps a woman to always be in shape and feel truly happy. Union with a young person – a chance to dramatically change your life, social circle and interests.
A loved one becomes a source of strength, energy and inspiration. Mature woman very interest in the young man gives the assurance that she is still beautiful, attractive and desirable. And for men and for women, this Union is a great incentive for development. Both partners, for various reasons, are afraid to lose each other and constantly improved to avoid this.
The woman watching him, trying to maintain youth and beauty, not wanting to give a partner younger rivals. Man seeks to achieve career and financial success, as well as to develop spiritually, to be at the same level with his beloved and not to bore her.
What dangers and pitfalls lie in wait for such a Union?First of all, the condemnation of others, including relatives and friends who will be lecturing, demanding the rupture of relations and to predict them in a short time a sad end. The young man's mother is unlikely to be thrilled by the fact that the son decided to link the fate of its age. The pair will have to deal with rumours, gossip and envy are unfamiliar and even strangers.
Another serious enemy – jealousy. A woman in such an unequal Union often afraid of young and attractive rivals, which, as it seems, just waiting for the right moment to seduce and to get her partner. In addition, the couple's problem may be the lack of children in the family. If for men this is very important, and the woman because of age is not able to give him a child, it can lead to serious conflict and even rupture of relations.
Also, such unions often interfere with the domestic complexes, doubts and fears of the older women. It can survive because of the ingrained since childhood stereotypes, to assume that such relationships are doomed in horror to expect that sooner or later the young companion will leave her. Of course, it really can happen – but exactly the same as any other couples where the age difference in favor of men or entirely absent.
How to preserve your Union with a young person?First of all, you shouldn't pay attention to envy and gossip. Remember: this is only your life and your happiness that does not concern others. A woman in such a pair must look young and attractive, keep in shape, use the services of cosmetologists to always stay beautiful and desirable for your favorite.
You should not torment yourself with jealousy, and companion the suspicions and reproaches. Behave as though you don't doubt that you are equal just yet. Don't tell the man about your fears, doubts, and fears to lose him. Don't remind companion about his young age and lack of experience, do not try to patronize and to teach. Let that man be a leader and to make important decisions.
Do not overwhelm a young partner with money and gifts, turning to Alphonse. Be gentle, tender, defenseless, let the man take care of you. Do not deny the beloved in sex, make your sex life interesting, rich and diverse. Find common interests and joint business. Remember that the chance to live a long and happy life is only for those couples who have deep, sincere feelings and the same values. And age has nothing to do with.
Oksana Vasilyeva
Source: globalscience.ru
Such pairs are universally condemned. Around find the only possible explanation for this non-standard Union: young man – gigolo and looking for in a relationship exclusively material benefit. It should be noted that the stereotype that the husband should be older than his wife, did not come out of nowhere and has a Foundation in fact: marriage is typically concluded with the purpose of the birth and upbringing of children.
Fifteen million five hundred fifty one thousand eight hundred twenty three
A scene from the movie "My best lover»
When the woman is much older than his wife, and even more are already out of childbearing age, it would be difficult or impossible to fulfill their "natural" purpose. And yet we cannot say that such relationships are doomed, and the man sooner or later will leave the aging wife for a younger girl will be able to create a full family and have children. Of course, often such unions do break, but many couples save relationships for years to come.
What find young men in Mature women?It is not always wealth. Often the reason is quite different: an older Woman has already taken place, as a person, she is self-sufficient and smart, it is something to talk about. The young companion has a lot she has to learn. Besides, despite the "gentle" age, a man may be spiritually much older and do not find a common language with their "narrow-minded", from his point of view, peers.
Mature woman more diplomatic and tactful, to a greater extent prone to compromises, compared to the whimsical and selfish young girls. The older woman usually experienced, sensual, uninhibited in bed knows how to satisfy herself and deliver it to the partner. The flowering of female sexuality at the age of 30-40 years, so the most vivid, violent and unforgettable sex happens at different ages of couples in which the partner is much younger than his lady.
The young man may unconsciously look for in her replacement mother, if he for some reason has not developed a relationship with her. Finally, the partners can bind a sincere mutual love, which does not depend on age.
Mature women with young lover Union also has its advantages:All the same age to 30-40 years is already married or is completely unsuitable for love relationships or family life, as suffering from alcoholism, drug addiction or impotence. Only the younger man can build a happy and harmonious Union. Men live less than women, so, if the husband is older than wife, very early she will remain a widow.
The younger satellite is the best elixir of youth. To be in shape and externally fit to your partner, the woman turns to the services of cosmetologists, attend beauty salons, becomes taut and attractive. Mature men are more mundane and pragmatic, sometimes forget that women need to look after, give flowers, telling them compliments. Young people romance and capable of any "madness" in the name of his beloved. Young companion combines qualities of lover and child.
Some women want motherly care for your partner, and if it is satisfied that a Union of the type "mother-son" can be very durable and last for years to come. The abundance of rapid, intense, varied sex helps a woman to always be in shape and feel truly happy. Union with a young person – a chance to dramatically change your life, social circle and interests.
A loved one becomes a source of strength, energy and inspiration. Mature woman very interest in the young man gives the assurance that she is still beautiful, attractive and desirable. And for men and for women, this Union is a great incentive for development. Both partners, for various reasons, are afraid to lose each other and constantly improved to avoid this.
The woman watching him, trying to maintain youth and beauty, not wanting to give a partner younger rivals. Man seeks to achieve career and financial success, as well as to develop spiritually, to be at the same level with his beloved and not to bore her.
What dangers and pitfalls lie in wait for such a Union?First of all, the condemnation of others, including relatives and friends who will be lecturing, demanding the rupture of relations and to predict them in a short time a sad end. The young man's mother is unlikely to be thrilled by the fact that the son decided to link the fate of its age. The pair will have to deal with rumours, gossip and envy are unfamiliar and even strangers.
Another serious enemy – jealousy. A woman in such an unequal Union often afraid of young and attractive rivals, which, as it seems, just waiting for the right moment to seduce and to get her partner. In addition, the couple's problem may be the lack of children in the family. If for men this is very important, and the woman because of age is not able to give him a child, it can lead to serious conflict and even rupture of relations.
Also, such unions often interfere with the domestic complexes, doubts and fears of the older women. It can survive because of the ingrained since childhood stereotypes, to assume that such relationships are doomed in horror to expect that sooner or later the young companion will leave her. Of course, it really can happen – but exactly the same as any other couples where the age difference in favor of men or entirely absent.
How to preserve your Union with a young person?First of all, you shouldn't pay attention to envy and gossip. Remember: this is only your life and your happiness that does not concern others. A woman in such a pair must look young and attractive, keep in shape, use the services of cosmetologists to always stay beautiful and desirable for your favorite.
You should not torment yourself with jealousy, and companion the suspicions and reproaches. Behave as though you don't doubt that you are equal just yet. Don't tell the man about your fears, doubts, and fears to lose him. Don't remind companion about his young age and lack of experience, do not try to patronize and to teach. Let that man be a leader and to make important decisions.
Do not overwhelm a young partner with money and gifts, turning to Alphonse. Be gentle, tender, defenseless, let the man take care of you. Do not deny the beloved in sex, make your sex life interesting, rich and diverse. Find common interests and joint business. Remember that the chance to live a long and happy life is only for those couples who have deep, sincere feelings and the same values. And age has nothing to do with.
Oksana Vasilyeva
Source: globalscience.ru
