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Age crisis as a convenient excuse
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When people grow up, it becomes smarter, more responsible and stronger, he sets his goals and has his own plans, he ascends the levels of personal growth and development. When the person comes to the new age and the difficult circumstances to which he was not ready, he falls into throwing, experiences and crises. Personal crises — an indicator not so much of the stages of growing up as lack of education and a prolonged immaturity, which manifests itself through these stages. What people call the age of personal crises — a common manifestation of "childishness", the lack of a person to life.
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If the person is stupid, a lot of dreams and little does, of course, sooner or later, with some life's difficulties he will face. necessarily. Responsible, think about the future, correctly developing people's personal crises to prevent at not be.
To be in a situation the age of the crisis — the same thing to get wet in the rain after you went out on a cloudy day outside without an umbrella and not seeing a weather forecast. You are aware that on a cloudy day, maybe rain? Should be a little prudent.
Crisis 27-30 years "I haven't achieved anything". Yes, if you are 30 and you realize that your youthful dreams unfulfilled, opportunities lost: you have no great achievements, no fame, no three-storey villas. Amazing... what did you do from 18 to 30 years? Went to discos and Nightclubs? You have established the account for the time you have identified goals for 5 and 10 years, you started each day with planning, holding before his eyes the goal of the year? No? If only now you started to understand what did really nothing, it's not age and is not in crisis, and the fact that you lived crooked. If you summarize how you are approaching your goals in your 30 years you won't know about his life, nothing fundamentally new. Grounds for crisis — no.
Crisis 37-40 years, when the horizon drew Death. For you it was news? You it's the only time when the body began to avenge an unhealthy lifestyle, to deny you and hurt you just now figured out that life is not infinite, and before that was in an illusion? For adults who are not only themselves, whose dog died that relatives were buried, it will not open. Men are mortal. Yes, I know.
Who doubts, go to your insurance agent, ask how long you have left to live, he will ask you some questions and confident enough to call your five-year plan.
The crisis indicator is not Mature, and the unwillingness of the person to change, and the age crisis is a convenient excuse.
No evidence that age-related crises will certainly accompany the life of every person — no. Earlier, 50 years ago, alcoholism and disorder treated exactly like alcohol and carelessness, and not as a natural manifestation of a natural age of identity crises. People who have received high-quality education, as do religious people never have any crises, they do not allow their conscience. They live every day, perform their duties before God and men, and its weakness on crises are not attributed.
Age crises don't happen in monasteries, age crises are not observed in the army during the fighting. No time for nonsense. Each performs its combat missions, and recreation uses intended for recreation.
However, now is the time of freedom and leisure. People can afford to live the way you want them, even though the inner core is present far not at all. People begin to stagger, and the typical hesitation of a man who doesn't organize itself, it is convenient to call personal crises — especially because it sounds solid and serious.
Age crisis is a convenient excuse that the person is supported by the psychologists. The explanation itself psychotherapeutics: if you explain that it is not he makes a fool and his natural identity crisis, it soothes: relieves his guilt, takes responsibility. The person receives a clear and easy explanation, and the psychologist receives the status of an intelligent man, and another client as "your difficulties are not random, it's not just laziness, you have a midlife crisis and you need a psychological work." Everyone is happy.
Total: the theme of crisis examine the literature read and make sure you have no age or any other personal crises were not. To life better be ready!
источник:psychologos.ru
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Seventy eight million thirty thousand one hundred thirty eight
If the person is stupid, a lot of dreams and little does, of course, sooner or later, with some life's difficulties he will face. necessarily. Responsible, think about the future, correctly developing people's personal crises to prevent at not be.
To be in a situation the age of the crisis — the same thing to get wet in the rain after you went out on a cloudy day outside without an umbrella and not seeing a weather forecast. You are aware that on a cloudy day, maybe rain? Should be a little prudent.
Crisis 27-30 years "I haven't achieved anything". Yes, if you are 30 and you realize that your youthful dreams unfulfilled, opportunities lost: you have no great achievements, no fame, no three-storey villas. Amazing... what did you do from 18 to 30 years? Went to discos and Nightclubs? You have established the account for the time you have identified goals for 5 and 10 years, you started each day with planning, holding before his eyes the goal of the year? No? If only now you started to understand what did really nothing, it's not age and is not in crisis, and the fact that you lived crooked. If you summarize how you are approaching your goals in your 30 years you won't know about his life, nothing fundamentally new. Grounds for crisis — no.
Crisis 37-40 years, when the horizon drew Death. For you it was news? You it's the only time when the body began to avenge an unhealthy lifestyle, to deny you and hurt you just now figured out that life is not infinite, and before that was in an illusion? For adults who are not only themselves, whose dog died that relatives were buried, it will not open. Men are mortal. Yes, I know.
Who doubts, go to your insurance agent, ask how long you have left to live, he will ask you some questions and confident enough to call your five-year plan.
The crisis indicator is not Mature, and the unwillingness of the person to change, and the age crisis is a convenient excuse.
No evidence that age-related crises will certainly accompany the life of every person — no. Earlier, 50 years ago, alcoholism and disorder treated exactly like alcohol and carelessness, and not as a natural manifestation of a natural age of identity crises. People who have received high-quality education, as do religious people never have any crises, they do not allow their conscience. They live every day, perform their duties before God and men, and its weakness on crises are not attributed.
Age crises don't happen in monasteries, age crises are not observed in the army during the fighting. No time for nonsense. Each performs its combat missions, and recreation uses intended for recreation.
However, now is the time of freedom and leisure. People can afford to live the way you want them, even though the inner core is present far not at all. People begin to stagger, and the typical hesitation of a man who doesn't organize itself, it is convenient to call personal crises — especially because it sounds solid and serious.
Age crisis is a convenient excuse that the person is supported by the psychologists. The explanation itself psychotherapeutics: if you explain that it is not he makes a fool and his natural identity crisis, it soothes: relieves his guilt, takes responsibility. The person receives a clear and easy explanation, and the psychologist receives the status of an intelligent man, and another client as "your difficulties are not random, it's not just laziness, you have a midlife crisis and you need a psychological work." Everyone is happy.
Total: the theme of crisis examine the literature read and make sure you have no age or any other personal crises were not. To life better be ready!
источник:psychologos.ru
Source: /users/1077
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