Relations to children's errors in the education

We are so accustomed to that we are blamed for mistakes that have ceased to be proactive, we become afraid of making mistakes. For a long time — since childhood. We are afraid of negative evaluation, and our reluctance to act is directly proportional to the mistake.

Well, what are you doing! So the toys will not fit in the box! What you have done! You drew with markers all over the table. You have scattered crumbs all over the room! No, you cannot. I already told you! This is elementary, at your age, such errors are inexcusable! Even in first class know it! Look, children, what did Sasha! It was a wrong decision, sit down — "2". I thought you are an expert, and you...

We are so accustomed to that we are blamed for mistakes that have ceased to be proactive, we become afraid of making mistakes. For a long time — since childhood. We are afraid of negative evaluation, and our reluctance to act is directly proportional to the mistake.

Afford to make mistakes when raising children — does not mean to be careless and to be irresponsible as a parent. It means to accept reality for what it is. Mistakes are an inevitable part of life. From them we can extract useful lessons.

"The attitude to the mistakes in the upbringing of the child" — an excerpt from the video training of Dmitry Telecon:

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