How to properly raise a son

It is considered that the key role in boyhood A man (husband, grandfather, brother) plays. But if you look at the truth, the mother-child bond is the strongest in the world. His mother is the first woman he sees in his life. It is she who spends the most time with him until a certain period and influences how he will grow up and how he will treat others.



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The main thing in raising a child is not to strangle his individuality, which very often women do in an effort to be an ideal mother. Editorial "Site" 6 things you should not do in raising a son, so that he grew up a confident man with respect for his mother and other women. Of course, every mother knows. how to raise a sonBut there are common mistakes that should not be made.

Raising a son Mistakes in education

1. Decide for him.
   Moms, of course, wonder what their sons like. But they like to make decisions for them themselves: “Yet little”, “I don’t understand anything”, “Grow up – will be grateful”. And then he doesn't know what to do, and every little thing he runs for advice. Always consult your son on matters important to him. Ask him for his opinion, even when you choose things for him or plan a family vacation. Teach your child to make decisions and always discuss all possible consequences.
   
   
   
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2. Excessive fear
   Many mothers protect their sons from anything that seems cruel or dangerous. But if a boy wants to, he must go to boxing or karate, ride a bicycle. And just because he hits someone back doesn't mean he's bad. And playing football, he can beat his knees or dislocate his leg. But that's what interests him. He's a boy. It is likely that the skills acquired in various sections will not be useful to him in the future, but now it is necessary to maintain his interest. In addition, various activities temper his spirit and contribute to good shape.
   
   
   
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3. Laughing at my son
   Children are very funny and their behavior makes us laugh. But you have to be careful not to let your son think you're making fun of him. If you see that your laughter somehow embarrassed him, be sure to explain to him that you are laughing at a joke or action, and not mocking him. And don't forget to tell him you're proud of him, that his jokes make you happy.
   
   
   
   
   
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4. Kiss on the lips
   Through kissing, we express our tenderness and love. But remember, kissing a boy on the lips is taboo. This is an intimate action that does not apply to the child. Embrace your blood, kiss on the cheeks or forehead, and most importantly – every day say that you love him and he is the best thing in your life.
   
   
   
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5. Don't change in front of your son.
   Even if your son is 1 year old, don’t change in front of him. After all, the psyche is formed up to 3 years. If the mother calmly changes clothes or undresses in front of the grown son (not necessarily to the goal), then there is a chance that he will not take the female body seriously. Or make fun of the girls.
   
   
   
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6. Don't humiliate him
   Everyone has nerves sometimes, but you need to carefully choose the words for moral reading. And if you said something you regret, be sure to talk to your son and explain to him that you were overreacting. And remember, never talk about your son’s failures with your girlfriends, and never talk about them as a warning to other children. Your son will lose trust in you and the people. He may also be afraid of being judged by others.
   
   
   
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Children are a great happiness. No one can give specific guidelines and recommendations on how to properly educate them. The main thing is to show your love and let the child do what he wants, rather than trying to grow his copy, suppressing all his ambitions. You need to talk to your son from an early age to avoid missing something important.

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