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How life destroys relationships
Everyday problems, troubles and little problems make up our ordinary life. Love relates to the spiritual that does not tolerate fuss and stress. But experts say that so hated us "domestics" may even unite the family.
A standard set of challenges – lack of money, problems with housing, comfort, economy and habits of a way of life – does not shy away from any wealthy family or couples with average incomes. On these topics, arguing not only spouses, but also parents and children, brothers and sisters, relatives from different sides of husband and wife. Even if you share an apartment with a friend, you can't avoid findings on the topic of dirty dishes.
At the level of psychology the solution of such problems is the model on which you used to cope with any difficulties, and if there is fear, desire to avoid responsibility and blame, guaranteed problems in a relationship.
Because we all know something else: with sweet heaven in a tent. This statement essentially tells us that if the Union is solidarity, friendship and unity, no economic hardship is not able to unsettle him. And you can find a solution together and fun to handle, and get pleasure from the result.
The allocation of responsibilities To this question there are several approaches, but each has its disadvantages. Families in which concerns are divided strictly into male and female find out who are more fortunate, and who live on all gotovenkom.
A man looks at a problem not as a woman but he has a way to go forward. Watch the video!
Couples who earn to pay for household services staff, dependent on their financial success, and if someone is in a better position (usually male), he gets the reins of power and authority, which can be used for personal purposes.
Best option for family psychologists call the model in which the responsibilities are not divided and performed together. Such a life does not become a reason for disputes, but rather unites.
A discussion of the shortcomings of the Wives tend to "cut" the men shrug off the attacks like annoying flies. This game plays most of the disputing spouses, regardless of whether we are talking about a late return home or the discrepancy of political views.
Specialist physiognomy tells how to soften the character through makeup. Watch the video!
The secret of success in the ability to switch places and put themselves in the place of the opponent. Any behavior has a cause, and the pressure in a logical manner is the desire to defend themselves.
The conversation must lead from a position of trying to understand and not to Express their dissatisfaction.
Respect for feelings is not Enough just to deal with domestic problems, it is necessary to pay attention to the good thing is that you are tied up and something that can die under the heap of problems and explanation.
To preserve a good and respectful relationship, it is important that the time in which the couple are together and do not tackle the problem. If it does not develop itself, is to organize common leisure consciously and not to violate the ban on the troubled conversation at this time. published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! © Join us at Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: domashniy.ru/
A standard set of challenges – lack of money, problems with housing, comfort, economy and habits of a way of life – does not shy away from any wealthy family or couples with average incomes. On these topics, arguing not only spouses, but also parents and children, brothers and sisters, relatives from different sides of husband and wife. Even if you share an apartment with a friend, you can't avoid findings on the topic of dirty dishes.
At the level of psychology the solution of such problems is the model on which you used to cope with any difficulties, and if there is fear, desire to avoid responsibility and blame, guaranteed problems in a relationship.
Because we all know something else: with sweet heaven in a tent. This statement essentially tells us that if the Union is solidarity, friendship and unity, no economic hardship is not able to unsettle him. And you can find a solution together and fun to handle, and get pleasure from the result.
The allocation of responsibilities To this question there are several approaches, but each has its disadvantages. Families in which concerns are divided strictly into male and female find out who are more fortunate, and who live on all gotovenkom.
A man looks at a problem not as a woman but he has a way to go forward. Watch the video!
Couples who earn to pay for household services staff, dependent on their financial success, and if someone is in a better position (usually male), he gets the reins of power and authority, which can be used for personal purposes.
Best option for family psychologists call the model in which the responsibilities are not divided and performed together. Such a life does not become a reason for disputes, but rather unites.
A discussion of the shortcomings of the Wives tend to "cut" the men shrug off the attacks like annoying flies. This game plays most of the disputing spouses, regardless of whether we are talking about a late return home or the discrepancy of political views.
Specialist physiognomy tells how to soften the character through makeup. Watch the video!
The secret of success in the ability to switch places and put themselves in the place of the opponent. Any behavior has a cause, and the pressure in a logical manner is the desire to defend themselves.
The conversation must lead from a position of trying to understand and not to Express their dissatisfaction.
Respect for feelings is not Enough just to deal with domestic problems, it is necessary to pay attention to the good thing is that you are tied up and something that can die under the heap of problems and explanation.
To preserve a good and respectful relationship, it is important that the time in which the couple are together and do not tackle the problem. If it does not develop itself, is to organize common leisure consciously and not to violate the ban on the troubled conversation at this time. published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! © Join us at Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: domashniy.ru/