Prenatal education

Expectant mothers, being interesting and good, often wonder whether it is possible to begin to educate a child right now, without waiting for the moment of birth. After all, scientists have proved that the child in the stomach of the mother not only hears her voice, responds to her emotions, but also perceive sounds from the outside, expressing the joy or the opposite – dissatisfaction.

However, it is not necessary to go into extremes and to teach the unborn baby a foreign language or the laws of physics. Prenatal education is quite different.

 





 

1. A child should be wanted.

The energy level of the embryo already feels the mother's reaction about her pregnancy. And the older the child becomes, the clearer to him the nature of maternal feelings. It is proven that those children whose mothers were thinking during pregnancy about abortion, are born weak and sickly, and when they grow up, they often think about suicide. Mentally the mother and the embryo form a single whole, because the mother's reaction to his existence puts a strong imprint on the child. This information is laid down in his subconscious and forms understanding: "I do not want, do not wait and do not like" or Vice versa. And this is the Foundation of health, emotional state and Outlook in particular. Therefore, if the child was not planned, and the news was very unexpected for you, if you experienced not joy but fear and a feeling of hopelessness, now you need to talk to your kid and apologize to him. After all he experienced in his first, even in utero, life stress! Read more about this in the article "If you got pregnant".

 

2. Relationship with your husband should be harmonious.

You may wonder, where is your relationship with the man to the fetal child. But in fact it plays a very important role! If you are angry, resent your husband, experiencing only negative emotions when you think about it, imagine feeling your baby!

It is already in the belly of the mother formed the view about this world and about the relations between men and women. Andif your child will be a girl, the first encounter with the image of a man will be traumatic for him. Subconsciously she will hit you up for a program that men are bad and hurt.

Needless to say, what in the future it will be a problem? And if the child will be a boy, then he is afraid to take responsibility for a woman in adult life, because subconsciously will remember your emotional state. If you treat your husband with respect, ignore his requests, maybe even humiliate him, then don't be surprised if after the child's birth father there is no authority.

The child has absorbed your attitude to her husband, since during pregnancy you and the baby shared energy field. So the family relations is a very important component of prenatal education of the child. As much as it seemed strange.

 

3. A woman should not live in stress.

Otherwise, in addition to oxygen starvation and other medical problems the baby will absorb the life-affirming message: "This world is dangerous." Such a child will grow frightened, uptight, introverted, with a lot of complexes. He fears any change in life, preferring to hide in her protective cocoon that will protect him from the dangers of this world. Therefore, the mentality of women during pregnancy very important! No wonder they say that pregnant woman should only see the beautiful and hear only pleasant. In other words, enjoy life, arriving in a calm and relaxed state. But if a woman in the period of waiting for a baby and there was an unpleasant situation, it is worth all your emotions and feelings to explain to a child. To say he's got nothing to do with. To apologize for something that gave your negative emotions and experiences to him.

 

4. You need to tell the child of their love.

The most important and basic fear of every person that didn't love him. This fear drives even young children to things, allowing you to call for endorsement and adults to earn their love. Love is our spiritual food, and need it we start in the womb. Therefore, your main task is to feed your baby not only nutrients that you absorb with food, but also to tell the child of their love. As often as possible, as warmer. Imagine as you take your baby in your arms as you kiss him. You can do a special meditation to send love from your heart to a child in the form of Golden thread. Mentally, of course. The energy level of the kid very well feels the impulses of love that radiates your heart when you concentrate on this exercise.

 

5. To work through the fears associated with pregnancy.

Namely, fear for the child and fear of childbirth. The energy of fear is directly proportional to the energy of love and is therefore not constructive, but destructive. Learn to trust the highest forces of life and to the child. Challenge pregnant women to relax. This is also part of prenatal education of the child. As you can see, to educate does not always mean to moralize, lecture, lecture and tell them how to act and how not. To educate does not always mean to teach language or literature. To educate in this case is to continually work on ourselves, train baby's love, acceptance, and to trust the universe and enjoy Life. published

Author: Yulia Kravchenko

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