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Words have little meaning...
How seldom we began to meet with honesty in our lives. The world in which we live, permeated through and through intemperate words and unfulfilled promises. In this world all the lies. Lie our favorite politicians and religious leaders.
Lying to doctors and teachers. Lying to parents and friends. They even do not try to force yourself, it happens easily and naturally. And most importantly — we are systematically lying to yourself and others.
Unfortunately, in the modern age, words have little meaning. Saying something to another person, promising or reassuring him, we ourselves often don't take their words seriously. And yet often we don't take seriously the words of promised ourselves. Alas, we too soon learned to come to terms with double standards and have adapted to live on open spaces of our "white" lies.
We forgot that any lie that robs us of integrity, leads to gradual self-destruction, inability to be happy and healthy, and following this, leads to the loss of the meaning of our existence. A lie is a snowball that is picking up the pace, pulls you into the avalanche, which is already very difficult to get out and push yourself to understand what really matters.
I am sure that most people, in principle, I agree that lying is bad. However, almost everyone will tell you that there are situations in which lying is not only possible, but necessary.
Not everyone will be bold enough to say that his boss looks bad, and a girlfriend gained five extra pounds. Not everyone is able to answer honestly to your partner on the question "were you cheating on me"? Really for us it makes no sense that a little FIB in the interview, wanting to get a better job? Why not hide the news about their monetary troubles or diseases of relatives, so that they weren't nervous or worried about us?
We lie constantly. Lying to the man, promising him a meeting, without planning it, actually. Lying when we say that today we will finish the project, while mentally realizing that it is physically impossible. Lying when we say that we will give the money, not even knowing where we will be able to find them.
We promise ourselves that this year will take care of your health, let us live easier and happier, but it does not show serious intentions to make significant changes in your life necessary to achieve these goals. Over time, the habit of saying not what we think, rooted in us. The inability to keep the word turns into a real trouble — you are not considered a reliable person. If you do not consider reliable, so you undermined confidence. And the loss of confidence will inevitably lead to the rupture of human bonds.
People are divided into 2 categories. First try to make yourself believe in what you say, but somewhere deep down understand that their words have little power. The second learned to lie knowingly, twisting his lies variegated designs, couching the lie in new forms. He and the other case — a road to nowhere.
Imagine yourself in the place of the person you just lied. Imagine that in the moment when you promise a person something, what is not going to run, he already knows about it. As this time will feel this person is? How would you feel in that moment, when listening to a lie close to you? I'm sure at least you would have felt.
Now imagine what feelings are generated inside of you every time you lie to yourself? Lying is the main reason for the total lack of self-love and, as a consequence, the lack of love for others. According to statistics, the least trusted others those who lie.
In our life a lie becomes a very convoluted shape. Sometimes we communicate so as not to tell obvious lies, while keeping in mind the fact that people will be able to understand from our words is not what really is. We reserve the unconditional right to lie in extreme situations, in situations of calamity, misfortune, when at stake is our lives, relationships, reputation, health, or money. Alas, all these vital strategies is just one strategy of failure.
Lies in relation to other people is the basis for the loss of a deep relationship with them.
Lie to yourself is a guarantee of unhappiness, suffering, and loss of oneself.
In order to develop a philosophy of total honesty try to count how many "small lies" or untruth you, without thinking, say for a whole week. Try to force yourself by reading this text, do not put it to the side, and make for themselves the practice of what I call "days of truth", allowing myself to be absolutely honest in relationships with other people, and, most importantly, in relationship with ourselves.
Every time evading the right thing, you develop the habit to do wrong. Lied again, you develop the habit to speak the truth. Promising someone to do something, you do do it. Kill yourself, but do it. Wait for his word as if it affects YOUR LIFE because it really does depend on it. And remember, "less words, more deeds", because people really appreciate it.published
Author: Anton Radanov
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
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Source: spartanofear.com/blog/lozh/
Lying to doctors and teachers. Lying to parents and friends. They even do not try to force yourself, it happens easily and naturally. And most importantly — we are systematically lying to yourself and others.
Unfortunately, in the modern age, words have little meaning. Saying something to another person, promising or reassuring him, we ourselves often don't take their words seriously. And yet often we don't take seriously the words of promised ourselves. Alas, we too soon learned to come to terms with double standards and have adapted to live on open spaces of our "white" lies.
We forgot that any lie that robs us of integrity, leads to gradual self-destruction, inability to be happy and healthy, and following this, leads to the loss of the meaning of our existence. A lie is a snowball that is picking up the pace, pulls you into the avalanche, which is already very difficult to get out and push yourself to understand what really matters.
I am sure that most people, in principle, I agree that lying is bad. However, almost everyone will tell you that there are situations in which lying is not only possible, but necessary.
Not everyone will be bold enough to say that his boss looks bad, and a girlfriend gained five extra pounds. Not everyone is able to answer honestly to your partner on the question "were you cheating on me"? Really for us it makes no sense that a little FIB in the interview, wanting to get a better job? Why not hide the news about their monetary troubles or diseases of relatives, so that they weren't nervous or worried about us?
We lie constantly. Lying to the man, promising him a meeting, without planning it, actually. Lying when we say that today we will finish the project, while mentally realizing that it is physically impossible. Lying when we say that we will give the money, not even knowing where we will be able to find them.
We promise ourselves that this year will take care of your health, let us live easier and happier, but it does not show serious intentions to make significant changes in your life necessary to achieve these goals. Over time, the habit of saying not what we think, rooted in us. The inability to keep the word turns into a real trouble — you are not considered a reliable person. If you do not consider reliable, so you undermined confidence. And the loss of confidence will inevitably lead to the rupture of human bonds.
People are divided into 2 categories. First try to make yourself believe in what you say, but somewhere deep down understand that their words have little power. The second learned to lie knowingly, twisting his lies variegated designs, couching the lie in new forms. He and the other case — a road to nowhere.
Imagine yourself in the place of the person you just lied. Imagine that in the moment when you promise a person something, what is not going to run, he already knows about it. As this time will feel this person is? How would you feel in that moment, when listening to a lie close to you? I'm sure at least you would have felt.
Now imagine what feelings are generated inside of you every time you lie to yourself? Lying is the main reason for the total lack of self-love and, as a consequence, the lack of love for others. According to statistics, the least trusted others those who lie.
In our life a lie becomes a very convoluted shape. Sometimes we communicate so as not to tell obvious lies, while keeping in mind the fact that people will be able to understand from our words is not what really is. We reserve the unconditional right to lie in extreme situations, in situations of calamity, misfortune, when at stake is our lives, relationships, reputation, health, or money. Alas, all these vital strategies is just one strategy of failure.
Lies in relation to other people is the basis for the loss of a deep relationship with them.
Lie to yourself is a guarantee of unhappiness, suffering, and loss of oneself.
In order to develop a philosophy of total honesty try to count how many "small lies" or untruth you, without thinking, say for a whole week. Try to force yourself by reading this text, do not put it to the side, and make for themselves the practice of what I call "days of truth", allowing myself to be absolutely honest in relationships with other people, and, most importantly, in relationship with ourselves.
Every time evading the right thing, you develop the habit to do wrong. Lied again, you develop the habit to speak the truth. Promising someone to do something, you do do it. Kill yourself, but do it. Wait for his word as if it affects YOUR LIFE because it really does depend on it. And remember, "less words, more deeds", because people really appreciate it.published
Author: Anton Radanov
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Join us in Facebook , Vkontakte, Odnoklassniki
Source: spartanofear.com/blog/lozh/
