1. A feeling of regret in relation to itself.
Configured on poverty people pity themselves and believe that to be rich im not destiny. Someone pities himself for having been born a woman (because men more opportunities), one pities herself for a full figure (because slim people get better jobs), someone mourns his height, nationality, color of skin, religion of ancestors, some people feel sorry for yourself for what is still not married and not married, others are crying because of the ring on the ring finger or because of the stamp of divorce, the young see the source of problems in inexperience, old — at her age.
Do you think that if people spared themselves because of some unimportant fact and all day to focus on it, how to do people around him? Feeling sorry for yourself is a great way to get multi-ton anchor that will stop you on the path of personal development and provide eternal poverty. Feeling sorry for yourself is the best method of finding low-wage jobs and gaining a miserable existence.
2. Constant search for price tag with the inscription "Discount" and store with a banner "Sale", unwillingness to pay for good education of their children (because of you because no one helped), the desire to get employees to work as much as possible in less money — that's true signs that the second habit of poor people you already have.
The desire for total savings — not a sign of wisdom, and an indicator that you are experiencing an imbalance of income and expenses and come to resolve it with the wrong hand.
Programmed the wealth of people willing to pay for things their real value and generously reward the work of his assistants — and expects the same from others.
3. Occupation things that you hate.
Kate hates to wash dishes, but no one wants to help her. Ivan hates to walk the dog, but too lazy to build her cage. Sergei Petrovich comes to rabies from having to make quarterly report, but none of his deputies are not able to do it. Lisa scorns auditor's work, but only so can pay for the loan, taken to purchase a car last summer. All these people are willing to failure and poverty — the reason for that feelings that they have is the need to do unpleasant things.
The key to recovery from third habits of poor people — do not what you need, and what causes the greatest satisfaction. Only in this area you will get great results!
4. Measuring success with money.
Poor people believe that only the possession of a certain amount of money can bring him joy. Only a certain amount of money in the Bank can give him a chance to feel happiness through designer clothes, beautiful mansion, travel, independence from her husband or parents or care work. But practice shows that happiness never comes.
Successful people merit happiness in units, more important than dollars, rubles or yuan. What is it — everyone decides for himself.
5. Spending more money than you can afford.
Credit card and smiling staff banks will gladly help you to be in debt. After all who does not want to become a successful, does not want to understand the difference between a useful loan taken for the development of their own business, and slaughtering loan for the purchase of luxury foreign cars or a huge mansion.
6. The choice of instant benefits.
The desire to get right to the maximum — the eternal property of poor people. They can't understand that, when applying for a position with an average salary of a solid company that can few years have a lot more than if you pay attention only to how much you will receive in a month. Ready to failure students say that the institution only deprives them of time that could be spent on "zakolachivanie profits."
Life is hard? Just awful? Around discrimination, corruption, rudeness, crime — you, a normal person, there is no road to success? With all this I agree, each potential failure.
The vaccine of this habit — creativity. Find unique opportunities to fight the evils of the external environment, come out a winner from the initially unfavorable situation for you!
8. Comparing yourself to others.
Peter thinks he's better than his classmates, because only graduated from the eighth grade "excellent". Bob is sure that he is worse than all your friends, because one does not work during the summer holidays. Roma despises his brother, because that has no Lexus, which yesterday bought Roman. And Lena wants to strangle his girlfriend, because the number of fans. All these people well-developed eighth habit loser — the desire to compare themselves with others.
Consider whether this habit or you better not to allow the outside world takes control of the internal?
9. Measuring the wealth of money.
Truly rich people not only severed the link between happiness and money signs (getting rid of the fourth habits of the poor), but also undermined the equal sign between the size of the account and the notion of wealth.
Real wealth is the ability to attract money, create them from scratch, organize new businesses — and then you are not afraid of any tax with gene. prosecutors ' offices or robbery or stolen credit card numbers. The truly successful person does not depend on volumes of own bag with gold.
10. Isolate yourself from your family.
Magnificent losers obtained from those who are moving away from your family, explaining the reluctance of its members to support them in a difficult moment, to lend money, to understand, to share beliefs and the like. They do not understand that the family is a magnificent source of internal support, which can be accessed when in all other spheres of life there's nothing left. Only love can help to rise from his knees, when having no hope — and then achieved true greatness.