What will be the childhood of the child - that would be his future Bashny.Net

Ate ask any person who has children, whether he loves his child, he confidently answer "yes." If you ask a question: "Do you think that if you properly educate your child?", The majority of parents answered "yes»

. Childhood - is the period when the personality is formed, and what settings will be laid, so she will grow

. Very often parents themselves vaccinated children complexes, pointing out the flaws and comparing their children with other children.




For example, my mother tells her daughter that she has overweight and that dress, which she wants to wear, she does not go. A girl from an early age will start from complexes about their body, do not take it, and not love. A mother only had to correct her daughter food, and not the child form complexes.

Consider another example. Son, participating in the competition came in second place, and the father, instead of rejoice in the success of the child, points out that the son of a little training, little worked, and there is someone better.

If the boy takes the first place, and then earn approval. In the future, the child will be assumed that all love must be earned and can not love just because.

The above cases is a simple routine, and it may well be that parents behave in this way because of the love for the children of.

For example, my mother wants her daughter began to eat, to dress more beautiful and suitable dress, and Dad wants to raise the winner to son since childhood felt the taste of victory and did not lose his lifelong.

The motive is good, but it is necessary to convey to the child correctly. Wrong tactics adults can give impetus to the development of children self-doubt from an early age.

Dear parents, everything you need from your child - this is love, unconditional love. To you be loved, accepted for what it is, praise, support and encouraging throughout. Better "Perelyub" than "nedolyubili" better "to praise" than "nedohvalit". How will your child's childhood, so will its future, remember this, please.

Author: Jeanne Makiyan