You can be at ease! 40-year-old with high standards Bashny.Net

I did not have time to write, and bugs on adult males rather hinted About bugs adult women.

In fact, men under 40 and 40 no less frustrated than women.

If you read what they write M and M each other on age, you may be at ease.

In what colors poor frustranty describe disadvantages of their own peers. The level of frustration male can be measured by the amount of foam, he spews, describing how ugly, arrogant and worthless women after 40, and sometimes after 30 (when it really bad with a man).




female frustration level can be measured by the same: how evil and angry she describes worthless, ugly, miserable and arrogant 40-year-old men. These dialogues sometimes want to save, so there is a colorful description of frustration: and hatred and disappointment and disgust to the bodies (and others' Alas, your too).

Those and others may deny its deplorable state, arguing that young women (for men) and young men (in the case of women), they are very popular. But it would have some value if, in the lives of these raging young lovers would be available. Yes there are several dozen a year, most often people do not have a pair. Maybe young prostitutes in men? And even then rarely. As a rule, all it limited to just masturbation.

Masturbate 40-year-old woman, by the way, no less than their male peers. If the 20-years tremendous gap, then to 40 years it is almost there. Basically, not because women are starting to do this more often, than 20 (although yes), but because men start to do it rarely. More specifically, some still frequently, and some not at all. Men begin to divide to avid fans and indifferent to it all over. Men's sexual function after 35 years very quickly fades away when it is not used. «Use it or lose». But do not worry, you can restore and quickly. The truth is many people do not withstand even a short period of calving and the start to avoid.

That is, some young, smooth, happy and active lovers and mistresses - are abstract imaginary images that do not have a life of these people in any way. Most adult men and do not make a gesture towards the young girls: a reluctance to spend money and do not understand what to do with it then. That is, what to do in the fantasies of a very clear and otzharit bend under her happy moans.

But in life? She just did not stoop, it must somehow convince, but even if to convince out, does not necessarily turn out otzharit unless called "hot" this is now puffing, puffing in an attempt to properly aroused and finish, or on the contrary a ten finish that the same: erectile dysfunction and that, and another, and a quick finish and too tight.

Approximately the same picture in adult women. She never would look towards the young, handsome, and if he suddenly stick to her own, she immediately kiss to her handbag. It will be ashamed of his critical eye, would think it foolish to resent what he sees in her mother, she could not relax, even if it decides to .... she probably drunk to turn his head, but drunk able to enjoy difficult for both women and men, you know. In general, a solid mold. And this, mind you, on condition that the young bidder will, in principle, would be persistent and it will not be homeless gasterbayter, such as a woman afraid to admit to himself.

But again, I do not want to just talk about sad things. There are men and women after 40 and even 50 years, which in the field of ... everything is fine. They are, they are not so small, fortunately.

Their main difference from frustrantov, foaming hatred of peers, that they just prefer their age category, plus or minus five years. This does not mean that they can not fall in love with someone older or younger than themselves, of course they can. But consciously focused on finding peers. For them, it is logical, because once deprives many of the problems that arise because of misalliance: different generations, different interests, different plans.

Note that if a man - frustrant, that is life ... he is bad, he is very picky in the slightest blemish, meticulous and considerate. It's like a person with a poor appetite, a sick stomach, can dig into a plate of food, fastidiously examining fresh Are there products and whether the cook spit in the plate, not well, but suddenly, in general, will be loaded, rather than just eat, and ... frustrant (poluimpotent other words) is sensitive to the slightest imperfections.

Yes, that he is not given (he himself did not particularly want them and for some reason this fact is very proud, although sad fact), but the image of a certain perfection is in his head. It seems that whether a woman's body perfectly, he would probably let him. And no, I'm sorry, ladies.

Many women are frustrated by the way, supported by such men. They write that want only the perfect body, and no other wish is impossible. No offense to them, ... - the area for them inaccessible, locked, and if once and was available, they had long forgotten

. ... It is irrelevant to the ideal, sterility, glamor, to anything such it has nothing to do. Just frustrant avoids any physiological manifestations, does not want to feel the smell, do not want to see a real flesh, his pleasant aroma of tea roses and velvet photoshop than this ... incentives. But Rose and Velvet are not related to ... This asexual aesthetics. How beautiful Madonna icon. Asexuality, fortunately. From other areas of beauty, quite different.

The greater the level of frustration, the greater the need for a more ideal and intolerance of natural smells and bodily manifestations. In severe cases it comes to severe nausea. This is a psychological lock mechanism.

40-year-old with high standards

In human nature aversion plays the role of protection. Aversion person experiences everything that could be dangerous to his health. Normally, a person must experience a slight aversion to overt physiological manifestations absolutely a stranger, but the closer and nicer to him a man, the greater should be attracted to him.

What makes men attractive? Their desire is low threshold, and the threshold of frustration is high. That is, they desire to experience easy and difficult frustration. Attractive single men seem attractive, almost all women of a certain age, and higher libido, the stronger.

Attractive free woman is pretty many men (but not all, women libido is normally lower than that of men). When a person falls in love, he can direct his libido toward a loved one, but to the rest of the block, but in this case it must be easy for others indifferent, disgust should not be. Aversion nowhere indicates the presence of any problems, in fact a strong frustration of blocks.

If you wish to check their level of libido, the connection of the resource, wrap around his home town, and it is better on the beach. If around you disgusting, nasty, ugly body, the level of your libido abysmal, you seriously stomps on what life is twisted and crushed. If you specifically came to the beach for freaks and are in the usual place, then a sample of the middle, there's a beautiful people, and ordinary and ugly, but also living and normal, that is, if you are so disgusting all go to therapy or do something with it, so to live, perhaps, impossible.

If you see around a lot of beautiful girls, a lot of nice and interesting looks of men, you all right.

Although there is the other extreme. The total lack of a barrier between you and strangers (this is when it is very popular with all and easy to even admit ... with any representative of the appropriate sex) - it is a strong disinhibition attraction, it is also wrong, and it can carry with it a big problem if it does not separate any -That moment and a permanent state.

This ... obsession that happens at a very young hot men after some from abstinence or mentally ill adults whose bark disinhibited due to illness. This is not good. But there is nothing good in the other extreme - that it's a powerful barrier rapuntselevoy fortress, tower, where you're sitting (regardless of gender) feeding the imagination kakimi-to idealized, beautiful (sterile, asexual) images, but from the real bodies have Gates, because the libido is at zero or even negative.

The norm is different and now I will describe it.

Normally, a bachelor desire to appear to any quite handsome man who reciprocated. In the case of passionate love libido is directed to a single (but not necessarily very hard not to disgust the other, just to indifference).

But if you do not love anyone, and at the same time you normally connected resource (this is called "good attraction"), you may like anyone suitable sex with whom you have there is a mutual emotional contact to some extent close, but close enough. In this case, it is directed toward your stream and his body looks is not the way it looks at rational assessment of the indifferent eye.

With the rise of libido is not interesting to measure the volume of the body and examine the skin relief, no one compares attractive person with some standards, this part of the mind quite easily turned off at the slightest (!) Rise. If you are sober counterparts to examine it critically examines or you or your or his libido simply will not turn on the switch is cut down. All muffled.

Some people think that when they describe a certain high standards, they say, like the peasants only with blocks on her stomach, and only with a perfect ass, or like women without a hint of cellulite with long legs, and so some people think that such descriptions show how much they spoiled attention of handsome men. Alas. Most often, this means that they are all very poor libido.

They need a lot, a lot of conditions that they agreed to the rendezvous, that they are not alienated from the man. They need unrealistic conditions, which in their lives will never be, because of the inconsistency of their own data requested. This, in general, it is a tragedy in a sense that what they depict themselves, they are absolutely not available, and what is available to them, they do not want (can not). Attraction is not enough to turn the criticism, fear and skepticism, a very low threshold of frustration. A little-not as in fantasy, all at once falls and gates.

What I describe it all? To help you understand this about themselves (and partner). Make no mistake for his (and their) high standards. Standards are high absolutely all frustrantov. The more frigid woman, the higher her standards. If it is cold, it can defrost something totally unreal, perfect as she herself seems. In life, would not the fact that even unfreeze it, but she never checks, since it never receives.

The same man with a very high standard. ... Is bad, to be honest, when in contact with a woman (when viewing ....., maybe OK in his own hand), with libido problems in men such serious enough (need specific conditions for start), so it seems, that's well, if the ideal girl stuck to it, but only itself, lustfully, he would then yeah, well no, it can not, too many shortcomings in women.

Those with libido all right, meet a nice person, come into mutual contact and emotional can experience blurred in my head enough to see the man in the erotic world. That's what you need to libido, in its flow occurs immediately sensual idealized partner.

Remember the joke, "there are no ugly women, there is little vodka?" Vodka also disables the part of the cortex, but it slows down and sexual function, Releasing its inclusion, but slows down the implementation.

But good libido off criticism and rational perception, and sexual function includes at full capacity. A man comes into contact with another on the emotional and sensual level and that at this moment the most beautiful for him because of it high. And not vice versa. Many people think that here is the most beautiful, and then rush to come. But no, it is the illusion of cold rapuntselevoy tower. Or even a crystal coffin for sleeping beauty.

A question for you. How to connect and pump life? Few have guessed on the basis of this text?

Author: Marina Komissarova