Paternal archetype - what is it? Bashny.Net

Paternal program for children - is one of the basic points. It aims to develop and strengthen the identity of his father's bed, which is the base, the foundation of personality. And, accordingly, on how many strong and solid foundation depends on the strength of the rest of the construction.

If we talk about psychotherapy, then I'm sure many of you who have visited her, noticed that it often happens that people come to the transformational training, honest work there, go elated with the clear intention to live differently. Also live for some time, usually not prolonged. And then return to normal life. Why is this happening? Because no matter how wonderful ideas and setting may be, if there is no foundation beneath them, they do not take root. If a person really wants deep transformation and qualitative changes in life, to work out childhood still have, as it were, at times unpleasant it may be. Because the ideal parents, none of us were not, and we all had moments in my childhood, when we were angry at the parents were offended when we did not have the attention, warmth, protection, and so on and so on. It is worth noting that parents in no way to blame. They always do what they can for their children, according to their degree of maturity and self-awareness, their moral and psychological characteristics, the time and the conditions in which they lived. And after years of senseless and useless to complain, to express grievances, stretching from childhood bill. And it also happens that no one left.

Today, many psychological areas offer a variety of techniques to fill gaps childhood. But most of all we are talking about the sacred relationship of mother and child, and father figure is as if apart. As if innocent. And she, in contrast, suggests an important role of the father in the formation of the child's personality. Psychologists have long observed that much depends even on whether the child was desirable, whether his parents were waiting for: not a mother, because with a good, loyal, caring, present, in terms of personality and the maturity of a man, a woman always wants the child, namely -Father! Would the father of this child? Who wanted the pope son or daughter? How to react after learning that the father? He loved my mother there, and showed her indifference and even cruelty, ran to the side, insulted, humiliated ... and so on? Was he ready to become a father? What an example he gives to the child? I was confident in their abilities to feed the family, maintain and defend it, etc. If conscious conception of the future father realizes that he invites to the world a new soul, a new man. He is ready to take responsibility for another life. When consciously conceive a child, he initially still in the womb feels that he desires, love, that he was waiting, he was delighted, and he comes into this world with a completely different message than if it had been conceived by accident.

If a couple wants a child, I realized conception - it is the first function of the father. No less important and significant task is to provide security protection. A child on an emotional level, feels all the fears of parents and absorbs them like a sponge. And if the mother is not sure that the father can feed his family, where they will live and what to eat, all her fears, even if subconscious, will affect the child. So the father is a sacred duty to safeguard and protect the child and the mother of the baby. What does the protection is meant protection at all levels. (what is this urovni- talk separately). Thus, ideally, the father provides a safe space in which children can grow and develop, to express themselves. After the child's father met with natural masculine aggression. And if one does not have his father transferred him to base the ability to control their aggression, it leads to various distortions of the increased aggressiveness of inability to stand up for themselves. It also affects how people in the future will manifest itself in terms of attractiveness, ability to set and achieve goals. From his father adopts the child the ability to adapt to this world, to create conditions for the development itself, self-fulfillment and more.

Each of us in childhood is formed inner father figure and it is often far from ideal.
The tales of the peoples of the world are the main characteristics of an ideal father encoded in symbols and images. This is depicted in the epic of different peoples in the form of fairy tales, myths, epics, legends.
(article from the Internet, extract)